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You, how do you see - emotional controltext / broken wind weather is getting cool idea, ahead of time into the evening. There is one final quarter of the year. see astonishing news, I heard the fact that people angry, short conversation chilling, simple idea people happy ...... large and small things in life, it seems complicated, but simple, the key is that you, how to read. one morning, no time to eat breakfast at home, under the bus after seeing someone next to subway . selling food dumpling on the steamer (or ravioli, feel Talia look the same, I can not tell), I would like to ask if there buns, uncle, said: 'There is,' I asked:. 'What have stuffing . 'Uncle said:' To only buy, do not buy or leave it '(there seems to be chased to come) After hearing these words, I well done, and turn left (next to buy dumplings uncle who also say, on. What with her to talk about filling the chant). So I went to the subway exit, pause, why so angry, why his words can make me well done, and why their emotions so easily influence by others even if Considering he is probably because the inspectors to come, impatient and they are so tone of voice, but I was very angry. I do not know if Special Nike Air Force 1 Unisex Blue White Shoes he was too headstrong, why not easy to deal calm their emotions, why After listening to the words of the uncle did not continue to buy food in there. Probably the last week of, and students go shopping at a mall, I bought a piece of clothing. checkout, staff said you can participate in the lottery. I never even held out little hope, but when having fun. came to the lottery counter, I just smoked one, and then scratch scratch area. The results turned out to be in, and the first prize (if you can buy cheap jade eight hundred). At that time of course, very happy, for the first time in the award, think very happy, I feel very lucky that day. Taking into account the unique things you can buy so much cheaper (typically cheap psychology), but also something you can wear for a lifetime, plus On Daiyu good for the body, is a kind of mascot. My classmates and I finally decided to buy, buy us each a thousand or so (everyone just pay a couple of hundred) Jade (are the first to buy This stuff) very happy, plus the staff say this and that, 'Oh, hello lucky ah, did not draw a lot of people today are' ..... I am also happy to answer: 'ah, yes, I also feel so lucky. 'In fact, there is so lucky day or so, and finally my colleagues told me it was all a lie, she also cheated (check the internet, a lot of people cheated). I instantly silly, think depressed. I do not know how to describe it, I might not feel that students feel nothing, but I really feel very depressed that he cheated, but also under a large crowd. I imagined good jade and other identification true and false, then They went afterwards, at least the jade back, put my money back to me. Jordan Slide Oh, and finally I had nothing to do, had passed (which is not the focus). One second I was immersed in the fortunate surrounded during and after the second became extremely depressed I feel very stupid, or that people are stupid, why: At first, I simply would not report any hope of winning, but just along for the ride; the middle, I won the lottery, I feel good. happy, good luck; and finally, that he cheated, angry, depressed, I feel reconciled the whole process down, I do not because a plan had no presence is something to worry about Nice Nike Air Force 1 High Unisex All White Shoes it (thought about winning, winning after for it to worry about), is not stupid. It's that simple human emotions are affected, even if it is a word, or a thing. People really fragile, but also weak so obvious. I believe that there was also a will not be disturbed, because they are calm, but not many people so if one day I become so: After Uncle finished speaking: I continue to ask what the pie, or directly let me just take two uncle . a colleague comes to listening jade is false: I will not go depressed, not to care about their being cheated, or still feel lucky (as indeed was able to get the time that the first prize of scratch lottery) Well. or it is treated as a fool, or really go Xiufo the left bank of the mind: to be seen outside behavior or coping style, only a small part exposed on the surface, but beneath the surface the undercurrents more mountain, it is long-term depression and we ignore the 'iceberg.' In the following tip is our desire for life, expectations, opinions and feelings, the real self, which is not perceived by our daily 'inner' not only give meaning to our lives, but also allow us to be disappointed, sad, angry Nike Air Max 95 emotion distress. That is, you can only control what you realize, you do not realize what control you. Do we own be aware of the inherent? and responsible for their own feelings? Do we have the ability to touch with your inner deep desire? Are we to ourselves, or to others there are high expectations and requirements? When we complain or vent when, whether conscious It is derived from the inner does not meet? And want to get in harmony with the quality of life, whether we are open-minded, peaceful face? Once the sentiments of others back in the body, unknowingly expect others to appreciate, expect others to return, no return certainly more or less will get angry and depressed. If unable to perceive internal situation, they will cast out into outer destiny, that is, if a person can not be aware of the inherent conflict, then the outside world on . we will be forced to share conflict 'demo' out, and would tear into the polar opposites of the case that people have to deal with four kinds of special events posture: accused type: blame type of person always expect others to make changes (ignoring the environment and others. , focus on their own) feelings: anger, hope to change the world and others, due to their right to the hands of others, will be on the other side something to look forward; feel the feelings below: helplessness, loneliness, despair, sadness, empty view: his happiness comes from others, do not know what desire: to be admitted people, and people are intrinsically linked, hope to have a close relationship type :( please ignore the environment and their own, only concerned with others) feelings: special love to help others . helpless sad, resistance was to take care of yourself, take care of other people's feelings when rewarding experience under: anger, 2015 Latest Nike Shoes hate yourself this treat others, but can not change the habits of this model point of view: I do not deserve to see their very hopeless look: someone else to take care of me, because important people than I desire: to be loved superreasonable :( only concern for the environment) Feel: Feel the feelings of fear under: I do not care about feelings, apathy view: Rationality above all expectations: the others are and like me, Classic Nike Air Force 1 Mens Black Red Shoes do not bother me, do not feel eager to enter others: human contact, through the topics of interest, interrupt :( ignore environmental affairs, others and their own) feelings: there is no sense of belonging, very lonely, empty, empty , living in a fantasy world view: confused, lost Air Jordan 9 souls look: someone finds themselves, who do not believe the desire: gentle, loving, contacts since the opinions of others too concerned about, too afraid to go wrong, say what is due to the kind of deep-seated not confident this is actually needed is a 'mercy not Zhanshen': people come for help Buddha, Buddha nature is compassion, empathy, and understanding, pointing, when turned to the end of the old ?????? monks hold beauty across the river, across the river from where ?????? put down, where to go, people do not ask is feeling very calm, you can see the intense reaction of others behind his origin and mode You can feel their own gas field fluctuations can be adjusted to deal with, not to hurt others without their own grievances.