Some views on love .text / A Decade I think, is because two people love each other and begin to appreciate, in which two people understand each other in succession has three key words in this sentence: each other, appreciate each other, to understand each other 2015 Latest Nike Shoes to put aside. ' each other, 'to talk about' mutual appreciation. 'I said to appreciate each other, should not only face, received the body these sensory things. Many people love at first sight, because of the feeling sensory feedback, and begin to love. Of course, These can also be a factor in love begins, like 'She Bangs' inside, women just because the male that 'illuminated eyes' and liked him for years; even our well-known 'Titanic', the Jack is also Rose's beauty at first sight. Love at first sight does not prevent the start of a period of true love (but always very few.) Perhaps you think I say 'should not just' because they do not feel the senses brought by . Spectrum, but not on psychology, defined feeling is: the human brain reflect a direct effect on the sensory organs of the individual properties are objective things, because it is 'direct action', so a lot of people do not believe in feeling like, ah, sixth. sense or the first of several metaphysical sense these things, or that superficial things that are too shallow, too unreal. But in fact, people are sensory animal, always consciously or unconsciously, tend to the senses that 'the United States 'thing, but reason will tell you it is not practical, so you just feel it.' distance, but not fondle Yan ', and the' appearance Association, 'scoffed. I personally do not exclude' sensual love 'because feeling is an important factor in love (only the first good impression, is to continue to develop), but it is just one among the factors that accounted for a relatively small component of the factor, is far not the determining factor. Or do you think I said, 'should not just' because looks, figure these things will no longer with the years. no. I read Marguerite Duras's book 'The Lover,' a book, and certainly its opening excitement incessantly: 'I am old one day, in a public place in the hall, a man came up to me he offered to introduce himself, he said to me: 'I know you, you will always remember that time, You are young, everyone says you are beautiful. Now, I have come to tell you, for me, Nike Air Max Mens I think you are more beautiful now than when I was younger, compared with when you were young look, I love You now ravaged face. ''When I first read this passage, I felt a nameless shock, seems to be something grabbed my emotions, so I am excited. This shock may come from to a woman more mature after many vicissitudes and charm, but also may be from a woman can appreciate the vicissitudes of life, the beauty of mature man's love in the final words -. 'ravaged' - make this shock suddenly a close, becomes a Special Nike Air Force 1 Low Womens Pink Shoes soul-stirring power. I still have that feeling now, in just finished Jianpanshangqiao part of the text of the time. So, if you appreciate his or her face, body, No matter how many years after baptism weathered, time, and you can a heart as ever, as long as they really enjoy. It 'should not just' what should have what? In my opinion, to appreciate each other's should also include Attitude - That values and interests, what is the meaning of taste to appreciate the values that appreciate each other view of the world, the view held by certain things, enjoy each other's way of thinking, thinking on my part, thinking the one?. one of the greatest charm, however, is not to say that only the same values to be able to appreciate each other, I believe that we can in order to have enough mind to accept with their different values. And, in the different values of the affordable range, there will be room for discussion, you can make more fresh feeling. interest of mutual appreciation, taste is also very important. Why should I be the 'appreciation of each other,' rather than Jordan Slide as a given word 'unanimous' mean? Yes, the same interests and tastes is to have a common topic, where joint activities. And I said exactly what can 带挈 appreciate each other, because appreciation, without consciously move closer to each other, to get involved in each other's area, which is a natural The process is not difficult to imagine a relationship to enjoy each other as a basis, and if so, can not be called love, such as for some utilitarian purpose: Fertility, money, power, and so far, that I thought the 'love by begin to appreciate each other 'point of view is now.' mutual understanding 'Why have mutual understanding at the level of mutual appreciation perhaps not so to the full, we need to understand each other to fill the vacancy;.? Perhaps because the other side had provoked the brawl negligence also need to understand each other. Here the 'mutual understanding' interpersonal equivalent of 'empathy' (Empathy, also called empathy, empathy, empathy, standing on each other's position refers to a way of setting ourselves thinking, That is in the process of interpersonal communication, able to understand other people's emotions and thoughts, to understand the position and feelings of others, and to stand in the perspective of others to think and deal with problems, mainly reflected in the emotional self-control, empathy, the ability to listen and express respect and so on and related aspects of emotional intelligence.) how to understand each other? communication is the best way to resolve conflicts. Is there any way can be compared to each other candidly reveal ideas, discuss with each other, and then together find a solution is more effective it? Once the emotion without cracks timely repair of both dissatisfaction and resentment piled deep contradictions will burst at some unknown time, once the two sides outbreak withstand the pressure caused rancor, probably will go their separate ways, a film Two casual and never look back. understanding of the process is running-in process of character, like two gears, running to make love more smoothly. It also requires a certain degree of tolerance for both sides. In other words, are more tolerant of each other people, not because of some things and preoccupied, nor correct for opposing a particular weakness wanton bombardment (presumably we are very hate such people Official Nike Air Force 1 High Womens White Colorful Shoes in life.) Here is 'mutual.' Why should two In particular word out for it is because love is Special Nike Air Force 1 Low Womens Pink Shoes two things in appreciation or understanding if just one-sided, then this should be a very painful love? - Unilateral appreciation can only be 'unrequited love' ; unilateral understanding can only be 'wishful thinking' I'm not in favor of Eileen Chang 'I love you, none of your business' type of arrogant anyway, love will be with us through the rest of his life, but also in addition to friends. closest unrelated contact my ideal love: Now, I will try to enrich themselves, to make themselves outstanding, until no longer afraid of the future of their own is not enough with a par of the day then, would expect encounter a pair. people. Ideally, he is wise, but also the favorite sport. We will be like old friends, like, reading together, listen to music, play together, hiking, sunbathing together and chat. raise a large dog, they have their own children. the elderly, we can together capable of running on the Hill a healthy body, as well as due to the sun's shining and smiling young at heart with the following words to describe the love I have in mind - that is. 'Life and death deed wide, and sub-Cheng Yuet hold hands, and cried, 'The above is some of the views I love Annie attach a text.' The best love.. 'as a reference Annie:' The best love. ' think on the road to love, I think the best love is two people to be with each other. Do not bound, not wound, not possession, not eager to tap from each other to sense that something was destined to be dashed. And we should be Two people stand side by side, look at this lonely world. There are two separate rooms, each room studying, work together Nike Air Max 2012 to find a small restaurant for dinner, walk, be able to have much to say. hugged when feel secure. noninterference any other's freedom, even if she is still with the old boyfriend contact. not another confession, confession is obtained in disguise. very plain, very familiar, as if her body odor is the smell of your own. No matter what When and where, to be ready to leave from the left each other want quiet time, even her side, but also like to own one. There are consistent lifestyle, including clothing, music, perfume, food, and so less likely to remember each other, but tired, when we know that he is very easy to run home .., they are selfish or stupid people. They love others, just to prove that others can love yourself. Or grasping in his hand refused to release until something dead hands. Mature feelings are takes time to wait for its fruit. But we have a lack of patience, who in ten years time to wait for a long journey man? Who decade after travel and still want to go back to find the man on the left bank in mind:? so rational analysis on the topic of love, so emotional, so still and moving, because love itself is the world's most wonderful thing.