Today, the winter solstice, is the seventh day of the seventh month.
In September, my family was infected with coronavirus from my partner to my daughter and then to me. At the same time, my father was rushed to Fukuoka for treatment, but he passed away on the evening of the 16th at the hospital to which he had just been transferred at the end of November. I was very upset by the sudden news of his death and went to Fukuoka for the wake and farewell ceremony on the 17th.
I stayed at home for a while for my mother. My father, who thought "happiness of family" was the most important thing rather than money or career, was meticulous, "honest, and earnest," and walked around with a signboard.
As the eldest daughter, he raised me with great care and love as a daughter in a box, like a butterfly and a flower.
My mother told me about the wallet I gave him with my first salary, and how he still used it with great care even though it was in tatters. When I think of my father, I still feel a little sad. I have too many memories of him, but I don't really feel it yet, so it's coming to me slowly.
I was able to talk with people who said that my father was a patient man and that he never made any complaints even when he was in pain or suffering, that he was devoted to his family and that everyone trusted him and treated him well. Money, things, status, and honor are not things you can take with you to the afterlife. In heaven, God will only ask you how much you have helped others. I have been telling them this for a long time, and I want to fulfill this way of life.〜
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（冬至の22は初七日）
9月に我が家は相方から娘、私へとコロナ家族感染し、同時期に福岡の父が緊急搬送され
治療をうけたものの面会謝絶。
11月末転院したばかりの病院で16日夕方、
逝去しました。
突然の訃報に動揺しながら17日から通夜告別式等のために福岡へ
母の為にも今実家にいました。
お仕事も調整いただき申し訳ありません。
お金や出世より「家族の幸せ」を一番に考え
几帳面で「実直、真面目」看板を持って歩いているような父
「常に誠実であれ
家族、兄弟仲良くが口癖
優しく人に尽くしてばかりの父
騙されてもヒトを騙すことはしてはいけない」
長女として蝶よ花よと箱入り娘大事に愛情いっぱいに育ててくれました。
私が初任給で贈った財布、ボロボロになってもいまだに大事に使っていたことを母に聞きました。
私の娘が生まれたときもよくお世話をしてくれました。
父のことを思うとまだ😿涙が出てくるけれど、。国内
海外旅行もよく一緒に行ったし想い出は沢山ありすぎるのですがまだ実感がなくじわりじわりと来ています。
我慢強い父は痛かったり辛くても決して弱音を吐かなかったということ
↑私の性格は父譲り
人に尽くし家族の為に生き
誰からも信頼され父によくしていただいたという方も多かった。
お金やモノ、地位名誉はあの世には持っていけません。
「どれだけ人の役に立ったか」天国ではそのことしか神様に聞かれません。
ずっと前から伝え続けていますがその生き方を全うしていきたいです。#お父さんありがとう