Pick to: this article from the novel "pride and prejudice reflects the marital problems of England in the 18th and 19th century, analyses several different novel reaction essence of marriage, marriage reflected the social background at that time women's sorrow and desire for an ideal marriage, and says the novels to the modern society's practical significance.Key words: marriage marriage essence realistic significanceFirst, the introduction"Pride and prejudice" is the famous English female novelist Jane Austen (Jane Austen) classic, works through the five bennet daughters different options to treat our marriage, vividly reflect and irony in the late 18th and early 19th century, in the conservative and block state of the British town life and the world, showing the township middle-class family background of girls different attitudes to marriage love problem. Which mainly by the arrogance of single young darcy and prejudice of Elizabeth and miss duplicity officer wickham the emotional entanglement between the three men as the main line, at the same time, also wrote a rich lone noble bingley and the beautiful loving modesty big twists and turns of the love between miss Jane, hypocritical wickham and spoony three miss Lydia's ultimate combination, and fawn pastor, harpercollins and vanity Troy of summer between material marriage without love, etc., have a sweet and happy ending, also have a thought-provoking social tragedy.Second, marriage, and marriage in "pride and prejudice"Since ancient times, people's standards should follow the natural attributes of marriage, and had to be affected by the social attributes of marriage. So in marriage, people have to face the conflict of ideal and reality. We have been bosom marriage based on love, ideal, which is reflected by the numerous classic theme. And other marriage topic reflects content is different, "pride and prejudice" not exaggerate the power of love beyond reality, a marriage without block shape for love and break through reality. It is a realism with rational color work, focus on depicting several different marriage and love relationship not only involves the feelings, but also closely related to economy. The combination of charlotte and Collins, for example, in order to consolidate the family's economic, political, or social status of this type. And the combination of Elizabeth and darcy is the ideal marriage, author have love as the foundation, and money as the material guarantee. Reflects the author's marriage view: in order to property, money and status of marriage is wrong, but not the above factors is foolish. Therefore, she opposes for money and marriage, also opposes the marriage lightly. She stressed the ideal marriage should be the feelings of both men and women as concluded the cornerstone of marriage.Men how to pick his wife, the young woman and how their mother chose for its future husband, constituted the novel many wonderful scene. And through the description of different marital relationship with realism. Material factors is the 18th century to the 19th century British society an important factor of marriage. A male centered era, women do not own property inheritance, women want to live, to obtain the safeguard of life, marriage is a shortcut is the only way. This leads to a marriage at that time not only as the end-result of love, also can be a means of "living". This is why the author through the description of a few marriage was revealed in the society at that time money play an important role in marriage, people's feelings will be under its control. In women with no economic sources, sometimes, love is a luxury to them. Not they don't to love the premise of the marriage, but not that kind of soil.