両親を説得できる!? 経験者が語る「国際結婚のメリット」6つ
【相談者：30代女性】
親に国際結婚を反対されています。近々、私一人で実家に帰って両親を説得しよう..........≪続きを読む≫
たしかに子どもの外国語習得は各段に簡単でしょうね。
[Question: Women in their 30s]
Has been opposite the international marriage to the parent. The near future, we are going to try to convince the parents back to home by myself. As an example that it was good to the international marriage, I want to convince my parents, but do you any thing specifically I benefits of the international marriage? Kindly let me know the examples!
● benefits of international marriage heard in A. Experienced!
Nice to meet you friend It is Coco international romance expert.
This time, we have heard that it was good to a Friend was the international marriage actually! I'd appreciate it if accustomed to your reference.
● children in bilingual or may not be anything special (1)!
Extent that is also referred to as "privileges half", which, it is a famous story.
Almost all of the friends that international marriage around me, to become able to speak bilingual children is, I had to answer that it is the benefits of international marriage.
The during the marriage partner is fluent in Japanese, for life was also Japan, children only speak Japanese! People who have stayed, but in most cases, the mother tongue of the fathers and mothers, language skills of native level seems to get in without trouble, especially.
● relationship with (2) righteousness parents easier!
"Daughter-in-law foreigners" there appear to be more righteous parents or from the sense of, to a relationship that was at a distance a little.
They will look in the eye without also be or have stay out in no uncertain terms to that of the house, customs culture and that from different Japanese, that it Tsukiaeru a good sense of distance seems that many.
Just does not seem to go even so in countries custom of the country and in the frequent religious ceremonies, relatives relationship is important, some people who tried desperately in order to get admitted to righteousness parents.
This, it is an issue likely to be influenced by the culture of the destination Totsugi.
● I choose the nationality yourself (3) When the child is an adult!
The children who were born from parents who were the international marriage, dual citizenship is granted basically.
Once at the age of 20, since it is decided whether choose the nationality of either yourself, the width of the selection of the future design and dreams of the future of children is wider.
As a parent, the possibility of children that I want to maximize. That in order to carve out a better future, the choice of nationality that possible, it is a big advantage.
● there are many that you forgive (4) "culture because different" in!
Because the environment that have grown up also values also, it is too different from the original, also that it going to be a fight if the Japanese people, it is not a big deal for international couples also seems there are many.
Initially, even started studying and trying to understand the culture of the country of the other party, and are together every day face every day, is not considered deeply anything, be made to accept their opponents with a broad mind seems often.
● people who are supportive of (5) child care is often!
In particular, this answer is often the person who was married to Westerners. Shows an understanding also that women work, couples are doing to share not only childcare, housework seems often.
In recent years, I think the word "Ikumen" also vogue, people who are supportive of childcare as increased also in Japanese men, but men cooperative to housework is still a minority compared to Europe and the United States.
I want to continue the life work! I want some children! The woman aiming such a balance, I is very happy.
● (6) homecoming to the big event!
In many cases, you will want to live in the country either, but then of course, "homecoming" will be the big event as overseas travel.
Parents and relatives to greet also will have me waiting eagerly. I can not feel free to homecoming, homecoming expenses also increased, but can have the opportunity to go abroad on a regular basis, and is just a homecoming, I will be a very valuable experience for children as well.
Over over over over over over over over over over
How was.
The international marriage, various problems are inherent, but there are a lot of course 's benefits.
This time, I spoke of the benefits, but the first place marriage is what you loved ones. If he a nice man what, I can be happy if you wanted with him! Also talk that, I try carefully to your parents by all means.
First, ask them known to your parents firmly the feeling that I think him!
(Writer profile)
It jumped the Japan Coco in (international love expert) / 18 years of age, Indonesia Bali to study abroad. Countless friends became friends in Bali Asia, and Australia Yes friendship over the multilateral in Europe. Since we have seen and international experience of love itself, the love realistic circumstances of friends from various countries, and more particularly to international romance and international marriage. In nature that I want to always excited, motto "Life is gambling" is. Curious anyway, novice freelance writer ready-active people anyway. Currently, a single mother of TEMPORARY.
