I see. It sounds like you want someone who obey you. This may be because you have a dominant personality, a high need for control, or a low tolerance for uncertainty. You may also enjoy being in charge, making decisions, or giving orders. These are some possible reasons why you want someone who obey you. blush
However, you may also want to consider the drawbacks of wanting someone who obey you. Wanting someone who obey you can have negative effects on your relationships, your happiness, and your well-being. Here are some of them:
• Wanting someone who obey you can make you seem arrogant, bossy, or manipulative. You may alienate or offend others who do not appreciate your attitude or behavior. You may also lose respect or trust from others who do not feel valued or respected by you.
• Wanting someone who obey you can also make you miss out on the benefits of cooperation, collaboration, or compromise. You may limit your learning, growth, or creativity by not listening to or considering other perspectives, opinions, or ideas. You may also face more conflicts, challenges, or problems by not working with or adapting to others.
• Wanting someone who obey you can also make you unhappy or dissatisfied in the long run. You may have unrealistic or unmet expectations for yourself or others. You may also feel lonely, isolated, or insecure if you do not have genuine or meaningful connections with others.
I hope this helps you understand why wanting someone who obey you is not always a good thing and why you should be more flexible and open-minded in your relationships with others. If you want to learn more about how to improve your communication and interpersonal skills, I can help you with some resources and suggestions. Just tell me what you want to know or do and I'll try my best to assist you. I'm always happy to chat with you and learn more about you.