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Kristopher Kortryk

My personal blog about life as a single parent, and my quest to get there one day from America.

I am a middle-aged professional with a strong technical background of 20+ years building the Internet. I love Japan and the culture of the people in Japan, and consider myself an Otaku. 

My kids love Japan, and as a single father I know they would love moving to Japan.

I am learning the language, though I still have far to go, I am trying.

I should feel confident in my plans to move to Japan, but I am not.

I worry about fitting in. I worry about how welcome I will _really_ be.

 

I read an article in the Japan Times today about how the "no-immigration policy" is still strong in Japan. It talks about how even Prime Minister Abe is anti-immigration at heart.

It talks about how educators and thinkers in Japan all agree that immigration is essential for Japan to survive, because the work force is shrinking fast there.

However, the article also says that behind the public-view, Japan still prefers to be homogenous.

 

How true is this though? I mean, in the homes, in the restraunts, the theatres? 

If I come to Japan as a humble American and really try hard to integrate with the culture, will I feel truly welcome one day?

Is it possible to be welcomed as an equal, if I show true respect and act with honor to everyone I interact with?

I want to think Yes because the people of Japan have always seemed so welcoming to me here in the US, but until I can go to Japan I won't know for sure.

 

Nothing will stop me from coming to live in Japan one day, but when I do come there, it will be with great respect for the people and culture, a humility born of my faith, a belief in women's rights, and a desire to contribute to your beautiful, harmoneous culture. 

 

Still I worry. Only time and actually being able to spend some weeks there will tell.

 

Thank you for reading!

 

I hope you have a wonderful and successful day! グラサン

 

Kris

 

 

 

Good morning Japan!

 

I read the Japan Times every day and try to keep up with the news there.

I am sorry to hear about the heat and heavy rain, both at the same time. ショボーン

So many people affected, so many homeless. 

It is hard to watch on TV and not be able to help.

It makes my heart sad to see the people crowded into gymnasiums. 

The flooding was terrible, but Japan knows how to recover from flooding.

I wonder how good Japan is about handling high heat.

 

Protect your Kids from the Heat!

 

I wonder how much is taught to the children about heatstroke.

Is there education right now to warn kids to watch-out for head-aches when in high-heat??

Head-aches are a sure sign that heatstroke is about to strike.

Kids that know to watch out for head-aches, will be better prepared when danger is near.

Why let the kids pass-out from heat-stroke? Why keep them in the heat at all right now?

 

Heat kills. Heat kills the elderly and the children first. We adults can forget that.

To adults the heat sucks. To kids and the elderly, it is far worse than that.

Please please please Japan, protect the children.

Make sure that bottled-water is everywhere when kids or the elderly are in the heat.

And teach them how to spot heatstroke!  Kids can spot it in themselves, and in their classmates too, before they pass out.

 

I pray for Japan, stay cool, stay indoors, and protect the kids. 

 

Have a great day! 

 

Kris

 

 

 

Another day of weather trauma for Japan, and I worry for the people. 

As a father I worry the most for the children and elders, who may not know or may not remember how to protect themselves.

Also people wear a wide variety of colors in their outfits. 

It may feel like the most idea is to take off as many clothes make us sweat more. We may put on the clothes that match our outfit, or that make us feel good that day. These are mistakes in high-heat.

A lesson can be learned from from middle-eastern cultures about beating the heat. 

Definitely do not wear black or anything dark colors. The darker the clothing, the more heat it will absorb, and the hotter you will get . Everyone should wear light colors with thin fabrics that is why people are high in always wear in high heat always wear white robes. Exposed skin is bad, even if the schools there require girls to wear skirts - this rule should be abandoned in high heat. breathe. Not jeans!

2. The best way to light wear a light colored. Dark colors absorbed heat more than light colors, so your hair is working against you in the high heat. It does not matter what you put on your head, as long as it is light colored so that it will reflect the light away from your head.

In the USA we have something called, "Gatorade" 3. Hydrate hydrate hydrate. Then hydrate some more. Drink water many. It is like fruit juice with extra electrolytes and stuff that are designed to help your body when sweating alot. 

Most of all, stay indoors where there is air conditioning. It costs more to hospitalize lots of people for heatstroke than it is to open some gymnasiums with air conditioning for the hottest days.

Stay safe in Japan! Our thoughts are with you. 

Kris

Japan and America share alot in common. Trouble from weather is one of them.

Lately Japan has been getting hammered by one natural or man-made disaster after another.

If it is a major t yphoon, it's major e arthquake, t orrential rains, tsunamis, nuclear mentdowns, and foreign aggression now too. Every year some new disaster hits and lots of people suffer.

I like (like typhoons), and some are not (like big forest fires) where Japan gets lots more earthquakes than we do.

 

So in the USA we know natural disasters and understand how they are affected by them. I have myself been affected by them in the past.

 

The news about the heavy rains and floods is terrible, many have died.

Here in the USA, many of us feel sad for the people of Japan. We send our love and prayers.

 

He made the first ever televised broadcast by a Japanese emperor. The emperor e xpressed his sorrow for the loss of life and suffering, but also I am reminded of these words and I am sure the same holds true today of those lost or who have lost homes from the floods.

 

I know many have suffered, and nothing can bring lost. All we do know that they are with God now, in a better place, and that they no longer suffer. 

With dignity, resiliance and with honor. It is something we admire about the Japanese people, as we feel the same way. 

 

It is that unity that will be the future of Japan.

 

Kris

 

Voltie. My Dutch Angel Dragon fursuit.

 

Voltie is a subject that some readers may like. Others may not like it as much. It depends on your personal preferences about playing as an adult. Some 40-somethings are beyond wanting to play around in a fursuit, or other things that might look silly or undignified to more conservative people. Others like me believe that someone should never deny themselves the joy of play. This is especially true when it brings us closer to our kids in a meaningful way.

 

What I mean is that the first reason I decided to buy an expensive fursuit and spend lots of time driving to fursuit conventions is for my kids. My oldest son, Shouta, loves fursuits. He loves playing in them like an anime character, running around with other suiters at big conventions where there are hundreds or thousands of other suiters there. I am not 100% sure why Shouta got into fursuiting originally. He loves fursuiting now, all his friends are suiters including his significant other, and even wants to make and sell them one day. 

 

For me the reason for buying such an expensive fursuit for Shouta was because he loves fursuits so much. He didn't want a car, or a horse, or the latest technology - he wanted a top of the line suit. When I say top of the line, I mean hand-sewn full body suit with elaborate designs. These suits are meant to be played in, and are durable. They are custom-made to fit each suiter, and in Shouta's case the suit cost me 621,197 yen!  

 

Goessori

 

It was somthing I had to buy with my yearly bonus at the time, and we had to win an auction to get it. These suits are so popular that the suit-makers have long lines of suiters that want one, and they take a long time to make. Because the suits are custom-formed to the body shape of the wearer, and because each suit is a custom design, it takes between 1 and 5 years for them to be made. That is where Voltie comes into the picture:

 

 

 

Meet Voltie - My Dutch Angel Dragon fursuit! love Nico Nico

 

As you can see from Voltie's detail, it took a long time to make him. I decided to buy a fursuit of my own because I wanted to become closer to my son, Shouta. Being able to spend time with him in fursuits, playing, going to conventions and having fun has made Shouta and I very close. We are closer than most parents are with their kids. I treat him like an adult, and in exchange he treats me like an equal as well. I never imagined that I would be wearing a fursuit someday. I am a technology person, a computer person. I spent my life doing boring things that make money, not cool things like wearing fursuits and having genuine fun playing. Voltie did not cost as much as Shouta's suit, but was still quite expensive as I wanted one from a good maker that was quality. Voltie cost 451,780 yen. 

 

Goessori

 

That is a total of over 1 million yen spent on the two fursuits. Am I mad? Or just a dedicated father that will go to any lengths to fullfill my sons dreams? Or am I just a big kid at heart that loves my kids and does not want to grow old? Maybe a little of all 3.

 

What I found however is that Voltie changed me as a person. The experience of wearing a high-end suit changes how I feel about myself. I am more free. I am able to play without feeling embarrassed (as no one can see my face). Now I think he is one of the most meaningful things I have purchased for myself. It is a family heriloom for me now... Why?

 

That question is harder to answer. Perhaps Voltie means so much to me now because I was able to form a true bond with my son, a trusting relationship among equals. Now my Son and I have alot more fun together, we relate to one-another more, and have many more good conversations than ever before. I feel like I found that inner-child in all of us, and by embracing that idea, I turned my Son into a best-friend too.

 

I don't get to wear him much. I still have to take a big photoshoot of him at a convention, that will happen later this year. The lesson I learned from Voltie is that by trusting my son and treating him like an equal, he invited me into his world and taught me how to be young again. I am 48 years old. When I put Voltie on, I am 10 years old again. Its an amazing feeling because I can become 48 again just by taking off the suit, I become professional again.

 

Now I have ideas on how to add technology to the suit. I want to add special cooling for the user. The suits get very hot. I also want to add custom LED lighting to make Voltie glow!Laughing crying

 

Thanks for reading!!

 

I will post more about our fursuits in the future.

 

Have a great day in Japan! We are thinking of you here in the US.

 

Kris

 

 

I have spent a long time working in corporate America, and learned alot. I am still learning.

 

One thing that was a harder lesson is the difference between Loyalty and Integrity at work.

 

Loyalty of course I mean staying true to the company you work for. That is easy for Japanese people in my opinion. Japanese do loyalty really good. However people have a tendency to do whatever the boss says without thinking. Sometimes bosses want employees to do exactly that. "Do what your told and don't think about it, just do it." That is where loyalty goes too far, and begins to hurt the company instead of helping it. 

 

Remember the point of loyalty to the company; to help the company survive and grow. Otherwise, why be loyal? The company in Japan will take care of you if you are loyal. But if you are too loyal, then you become an unthinking machine, doing what the boss says without ever thinking about it. 

 

This is where Integrity comes into play. Integrity is hard to master at work. But what is integrity at work? The dictionary for integrity says, "the quality of being honest and having strong moral principles; moral uprightness." That by itself does not reveal the point though.

 

To me the important part of that definition is, "the quality of being honest". This is where the difference between a thinking human being and a non-thinking machine can make a big difference for any company. It means that when you are given an order to do something by your boss, you should also be willing to raise your voice if following the order would result in something bad, or in less efficiency. An example of this:

 

A boss tells a worker to hang a picture on the wall using a particular nail. 

You realize that the nail will not hold-up the picture. The picture might fall and break if you use the nail that your boss told you to use. This is where your Integrity comes into play. Your willingness to speak-up and suggest an alternative approach is important. Saying that the nail might not hold up the painting and that you are concerned that the painting might be damaged if it falls is important to the company. Not saying something may cost the company money if the nail fails. So how to say it without making the boss mad?

 

The key is to do it in a respectful way. Be polite, humble, and helpful in your manner when you point out to your boss that the nail might not hold the painting up. Especially important is to say it in a way that is Not Against what your boss said, but rather that the order is good, but that you thought of an Alternative way that the boss can then choose from.

 

Example: Boss: "Please hang up this painting on the wall in my office using this nail".

 

Bad Response: 

 

You: "No that will not work, the nail is too weak and the painting will fall and break."

 

Better ways to respond:

 

You: "Yes sir right away, but I am concerned that the nail might not hold the painting up securely. Do you think I should find a bigger nail, or will this one work?"

 

or perhaps:

 

You: "Yes sir right away. May I suggest using a larger nail? It would be more secure and prevent the painting from falling in an earthquake."

 

In the bad example, it is bad because you are saying that the bosses idea is bad. Never do this. Never make the boss look bad. It is not helpful to make the boss look bad, and will actually make you look bad for saying it that way. So when you respond, avoid saying it in a way that makes the idea sound bad. Instead you want to focus on agreeing with the boss, but then offering the boss something even better.

 

In the first good response example you are responding with respect (by saying you will do it) but also expressing concern for the company by worrying that the nail might not hold the weight. This shows that you are being loyal and respectful (by agreeing to do it), and also that you have Integrity because you were willing to express concern that doing it with the small nail might present a problem. Your not saying, "don't do this", which the boss would take offense to. Your instead saying, "Okay lets do this, but are you worried about..." and thus allowing your boss to think about the concern and change their order if they agree. 

 

In the second good example you are responding with respect (by saying you will do it), and suggesting an alternative course of action (using a bigger nail) instead of saying something negative that would make it sound like the bosses idea was bad. By agreeing to do it (and with it), and then suggesting a slight deviation to make the idea better, you are showing respect and loyalty but also Integrity (that your willing to be honest to help the company).

 

Either way, you show loyalty. By also showing Integrity in a respectful way, you become a much more valuable employee to any company. 

 

Food for thought.

 

Long live Japan, and have a Great day!

 

Kris

 

We have amazing cats, Ozzy and Maggie! :)

 

Ozzy is the big boy.

I'm pretty sure he thinks that he owns me instead of the other way around.

 

 

Sometimes he does the cutest things. :)

 

When I finally get to Japan, I hope I can bring my cats with me. I know it will be a long flight.

But I can't imagine not having them with me too.

 

Everyone please have a wonderful day!

 

Kris

We love My Hero Academia here in the Kortright house, its our favorite anime! This year has been very good so far! My son loves the Tokoyami Fumikage character so much that I bought for him a custom-made cosplay outfit for it: 

 

And one of him feeling good about it!

I have to say that I am very pleased with the quality of the head-piece. It is easy to see out of. It is very accurate to the anime, and cost alot of money (over $100,000 yen!). Still it is worth every yen to see him so happy. :)

Having a good summer so far, but the climate is definitely changing here in the US. Heat spells are longer, storms are more erratic, hot/cold spells are longer and wider. Bleh. 

 

Having Donald Trump as President is hard for Americans. Without him, no Democrat or Republican (political parties) will stand up to the trade imbalance with China, which is killing America and empoverishing Americans. Donald Trump will and does, and for that we need him to rebalance the trade. But everything else he does is difficult to accept, we don't look up to him. He is arrogant to a fault. 

 

I'm loving the new My Hero Academia episodes, as well as the new Fate Stay/Night movies - really top notch. Japanese Anime has come a long, long way and everyone in my house enjoys it. In America we joke that the only good TV is Japanese Anime now, nothing hollywood produces comes close. In fact, so much about America is like that now - not to be admired so much anymore. 

 

Japan's harmoneous culture is amazing, it is so much better than what we have in the states. Yes there are parts of America that are truly great. I love my country! 

But living during it's decline is very hard. Greed and corruption of our political system will ultimate be our downfall. Japanese should take note; It is nice that Japanese imitate some aspects of American culture, but Japan should be careful of the example as well. There is allot about America that Japan does Not want to imitate, and mistakes we have made are good study material to avoid the same fate. 

 

I am determined to learn Japanese, I need to find a friend to study with some day so that when I come to Japan, I can speak some and understand better. 

The way in which Japanese are respectful to each-other and to society is beautiful.

I look forward to immersing myself there one day soon.

 

I am Kristopher, an American and Otaku that very much wants to move to Japan one day. 

I am still learning to speak I am will studying hard! I will need to gain conversational level at least before I can start looking for a job in Japan. 

 

Some day I hope to make a friend or two in Japan who is learning to speak English, so we can help / coach one-another, but That will take some time to find someone I can trust and feel comfortable with. 

 

I love anime, started with Naruto and grew to love My Hero Academia, Fate Stay - Night, and recently Retsuko. I building lots of things with electronics, 3D printing, robotics and video game development in my spare time, but my passion One day I hope to support dutchies in Japan, and see anime in a Japanese theater where everyone will be as as the furrsuit / cosplay industry (the clean-kind), and own my own Dutch Angel Dragon suit, Voltie, by Monster Cat Creations. pumped-up as I am about it. :)

 

I'm middle aged, but still embrace my dreams and passions, and plan to I will document my journey here, please forgive my bad Japanese. :)

 

Kristopher