Happiness? What is the real thing about that word. We asked a lot of questions about that one, but we couldn't find the real definition of it, if we, ourselves aren't happy that much. Here is the real thing about it, hapiness is what we make regardless of what we've experienced or what pain we've done or even the hardest decision we've ever made. They say a person needs just three things to be truly happy in this world: someone to love, something to do, and something to hope for by Tom Bodett. But how could we really find our own happiness? How could we make oursleves happy? Perhaps, we may ask, when will I be happy?
Ask yourself first. Am I happy to my current situation? If you ask this question, you really need time for yourself. A reflection maybe. Try to ask yourself, am I doing well? Do I love my work? Do I give time for myself? If you think that you didn't feel so. Have time, take time and learn to enjoy what's currently you have now as much as time can give you. Life is too short to worry about things, to be serious. Let go and find yourself. The truth is, you can't be happy if your unhappy sometimes. I qouted from Lauren Oliver. We may hide it from everybody but always remember that the eyes can't tell a lie. We may smile but it always speak the truth about what we really feel.
“Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.” ― Dalai Lama XIV. That's the reason why, live in the Moment and make it beautiful. When your sad, live with it for a moment and then let go. Try to find happiness from it. “Every man has his secret sorrows which the world knows not; and often times we call a man cold when he is only sad.” ― Henry Wadsworth Longfellow said. But, can't you be happy when you're sad? Of course you can. It's actually a choice. If you choose to be happy after being sad then be it. “You will never be happy if you continue to search for what happiness consists of. You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life.” ― Albert Camus. If we continue searching for happines but we don't choose to be happy, can we consider that one happiness? Of course not. Happiness, is what you make, is what you think and what things you do right now. Right at this very moment.
If you want to sing a song though it may shattered someone's eardrums, then do it. If you want to fall in love to someone, live with it. If you choose to feel the bitterness of life then be bitter. If you choose to enjoy your day and do the things that you never do. Do it!“The most important thing is to enjoy your life—to be happy—it's all that matters.” ― Audrey Hepburn. 
If happiness is a choice, then choose to be happy.“Attitude is a choice. Happiness is a choice. Optimism is a choice. Kindness is a choice. Giving is a choice. Respect is a choice. Whatever choice you make makes you. Choose wisely.” ― Roy T. Bennett. Right now, think about things that makes you happy. Think about the person who makes you smile. Think about the the time that you think you'll be happy. If you already think so, then it's time to make that thinking into reality. Live life to the fullest and learn to smile. Hold on to what you've been praying for then you'll find it true joy- which happiness is a part of it. If you're happy keep going and if you're not. Think what you can do about it. Ok.
I hope you've learned something for today's blog. Thank you and may God poured out the reall happiness that you desired in your life. Delight yourself to the Lord and He will give you the desire of your heart. This is Lyn- chang sharing my unending smile and prayers to all of you. I just hope you will find your real happiness. See you.
- Lyn-chang "Rinalyn Salazar"