□ Morning News reporter Li Donghua

 

These days, Ms. Chu to figure out how, two and a half son Meng Meng (a pseudonym), because when you beat a few times on the early education of other children, also lost early childhood institutions "discouraging." Early education institutions also feel helpless, why make such a decision, they have to take into account the feelings of other parents, and these parents repeatedly reflected their children are playing,new balance homme, and there are written instructions.

 

Thus,peuterey wiki, only two can be a simple determination of the behavior of children and teenagers,ceinture d&g, really wrong Or on Early Learning itself is a mistake Reporter survey found that sensitive period in the growth of children, is not the case when you hit on early education.

 

Children love to be face to face discouraging hit

 

In July, when the Meng Meng full two years old,basket nike pas cher, his family helped him start classes in the day reported a mountain English early childhood institutions. Classes twice a week, accompanied by parents. In class, there are teachers and trainers with his Chinese classmates play while you learn. Soon,cinture milano, Meng Meng liked everything here. In this regard, even though a year registration fee of up to 12,acheter louboutin,000 yuan,sneakers, but at Meng Meng's growth and progress, the family is very pleased.

 

"But in the November 22, everything changed." Ms. Chu Meng Meng's mother,dior bracciali, said the morning with her grandmother and Meng Meng Meng Meng came early education center, is preparing to step into the classroom, when the teacher taught Meng Meng told her the plane, because there is love Meng Meng beat the habit, the school decided to suspend classes Meng Meng, the "discouraging." Hear the teacher's rhetoric, Meng Meng mother look in amazement.

 

Watching other students begin classes, but can not own classroom, that moment, Meng Meng face suddenly changed, and kept asking my mother, "Why not let me school teacher " Face questioning his son, Meng Meng's mother unable to answer , had called his grandmother to take home. "Oral reasons discouraging early childhood institutions are child aggressive behavior, there have been three times recently hit anyone behavior, causing insecurity to other children." Ms. Chu told reporters, but gave her written reasons for it is written, Children not suitable for teaching and learning environment of the early childhood institutions.

 

Early education institutions: discouraging is play by the rules

 

Reporter called the number of the early childhood institutions, the staff Miss Xu said Meng Meng hit more than once, the same class of several students almost every time he played, and even the teacher was that he played. Miss Xu also revealed that students' parents sued many times Meng Meng classmate of its hit, but also provided a written explanation.

 

Reporter then contacted the head of the institution, Ms. Yan Tian Shan Division. Ms. Yan said they would report the case of a summary of the Headquarters, is in the comprehensive assessment, only under a decision discouraging.

 

Since then, the reporter called the relevant person in charge of the headquarters of the agency Wong. In the case of Meng Meng was discouraging, Ms. Huang expressed already know, but cases involving student privacy, she is not convenient to talk too much, said only that they are commercial organizations, all decisions are handled by regulatory processes,basket louboutin, Meng Meng case was not special treatment, other students in case of a similar situation exactly the same way, related costs will be refunded according to the contract.

 

For early childhood institutions given "not suited to the learning environment" discouraging reason, Ms. Chu said, "he had signed when training just a simple training program, which did not mention would be terminated under the relevant circumstances learning, the other as an excuse now discouraging, I think it is unilaterally terminated the contract. "

 

Yesterday afternoon, the reporter to the identity of the parents came to the agency located near Centennial Park, a division, from staff training contract, the reporter did not find the terms of any relevant student learning environment suited to the training will be terminated.

 

Leaving unsuitable collective life, actually really protect the child

 

□ Chong (Sunday News Morning host children's center and heart of the world)

 

See this event, parents can not help but have a lot of confusion, mood, and even anger. For the protection and care of children, parents hope that if you really want to "discouraging", the best advance say hello, not in front of the children evaluated children. See the parents have such expectations, I am now the parents are learning how to better care for the child's feelings, this is the era of progress.

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Early Learning Center decided to make an objective assessment after "discouraging" the understandable. But the entire event, the focus of controversy seems to be how to care for the child's feelings. People expect public institutions is understandable, but we also need to know when looking frustrated, they tend to generate anger and disappointment. This time the subject is automatically converted to: When we disappointed, how to maximize the protection of their own to take care of children.

 

Two days before the hearing, former director of East China Normal University Counseling Center Ye Bin, a teacher introduced himself, said that he is now looking less and less of the outside world. Ye heard the teacher say, in my heart again. We always have a look, but when expectations fall time, how do we accompany their children is the most important thing. I believe that the mother must be harvested in this event, later encounter issues related to children, no longer look forward to the outside world how to do it, but more sensitive to the protection of the child, whether it is praise or negative evaluation of the child, will Active children choose to avoid talking about issues related to children.

 

But I think,christian louboutin paris, when you need to group activities for children are more urgent issues. If we know that some children "sensitive period" related issues, you know, a two and a half of children are in the self-identified "sensitive period", they often pass hit,air max, bite, say "no" to confirm the self isolated self. Children at this age, it is not required collective life, collective games and socialize. At home or autonomous exploration activities in the district and, in a let him (her) feel safe accompanied by an adult, together stripping soybean, play line group, a small cookies, and more suited to the needs of children with age. If we want the child to the future development of sustainable community gaming capabilities, to wait until a child after the age of three, let it be considered after the completion of self-identified. When we think this way, leave is not suitable for collective life actually really protect the child.

 

Early childhood institutions should not discouraging children

 

 

 

Opposition: child beating is common, discouraging too extreme

 

Reporters interviewed on the matter more than parents, parents generally believe, playful, beating unreasonable behavior, a child of nature. Early childhood institutions practice a little extreme, schools should be more communication with parents.

 

Guo is a kindergarten teacher, but also a mother of two and a half boy. Her child and the situation is similar to Meng Meng, suddenly screaming in early childhood class, occasionally beat students and teachers. "I tell the kids this is wrong. I sincerely got school and other parents understand. After some time, he screamed, beating acts slowly disappeared."

 

Support school: affect others, early education classes practice understandable

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Mr. Chen's daughter is four years old. He believes that the school discouraging process can also be understood. While everyone understands the child is not consciously or deliberately hit whom, but for the protection of other students, for the greater good, to make such a decision is also very reasonable. "Think about, if my daughter's class has students who likes to hit, I would request to the school, to the schools to actively intervene, quiet learning environment for other students." But Chen also said that In the process to fully take into account the psychological impact on children.

 

Children "trick or treat" how to do

 

 

 

Sensitive period of the child "bad behavior" out of curiosity, normal

 

Child sensitive period: refers to children aged 0-6 years,louboutin sale, driven by the inherent vitality, in a period of time, to concentrate on the absorption characteristics of the environment of a thing,felpe abercrombie, and repeat the process. After successfully through a sensitive period, children's mental level will rise one level.

 

In the interview, a mother told reporters, children in the growth process, there will be a number of "sensitive period", he would use a variety of ways to vent is not happy,moncler sito ufficiale, as long as parents patiently guide, these sensitive period will soon disappear . Meng Meng was discouraging for the experience, she believes that the problem may not be in communication between parents and the school.

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How to understand the behavior of Meng Meng Reporters interviewed the national secondary counselors Ni Haiying.

 

Ni Haiying said that, we must first figure out why children have such behavior About two and a half children growing curiosity, autonomy, initiative, self-control is also enhanced understanding. He would curiosity driven, try a variety of behaviors, including hands grab someone else's toys, etc. hit anyone. In fact, these acts in a certain degree is normal. From the results of the behavior,oakley lunette de soleil, the child of bad behavior and bad habits are not born, they are learned, learned from his living environment.

 

When the child has similar Meng Meng such a situation,ceinture louis vuitton, the parent or early childhood institutions how to do Ni Haiying said the first, to fully accept and understand the child. Children exhibit motivation is actually good, but the result is not good, we should give enough "patience." Second, when bad behavior occurs after the child, parents should look for from their own reasons, to reflect on their parenting styles. Finally, it should immediately communicate with the child to understand that he is not to attract the attention of others will have this behavior, and told him the correct way to get along with people.

 

倪海英 said: "You want to change the number of children, the children would change no matter how much you are parents or in early childhood education institutions,ed hardy bracciali, we use the forgiving heart to treat the child, rather than the traditional school style requirement to bind them. Otherwise, early education will lose its essence. "



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