ああ..... Surprise surprise....


Nearly 2 years I have not written anything here, so just wanna come by and say hi to my アメバ-.


みんなGENKIだろう?



MELSAがおぼえられるか.


Watched Oscar movie Slumdog Millionnaire.... gave me a lot of inspirations....


A slumdog can become a millionnaire at one night..... is it written? is it meant to be?


One chance.... it's 50/50 you either have 2 hundred million or NOTHING, life is like that somehow. leaves you no choice but either "go for it" or "take what you have now".






Will you take the risk?







Was translating something about this so might as well think about it (LOL)


"Me and work, which is more important?"


Q: Have you asked this question before?


A: NO! haha I just think it's hard to compare! The ideal answer is "it depends on the priority". But, if he must choose, I'd rather my man concentrate on work more than on me. I don't mean I don't want him to care about me, but I understand that work is extremely important for a man. I think a man that concentrates on work should a hard-working and reliable man. It makes me feel safer too because it makes me think that he won't think about women too much? (LOL) Put it this way, it makes me think that "working hard means he's working hard for OUR FUTURE". If you don't have a stable job, how can you look after your beloved, your family?



Q: Then what about you?


A: Hmmm..... this is a hard question ne...... but I am a girl afterall, if I have to choose, I will choose family. I think family is very important for myself. I can give up work for the family e.g. look after children for housework. Since I haven't had any 'career' yet, I can say this easily. But I guess if it happens when I am a very successful work woman, then i think i will need to think about it more deeply, and see whether the cost opportunity is good enough for me to give up work. and hopefully my husband understands. (LOL)