He stole my heart.

Have you ever felt like someone has made a hole in your heart?
Have you ever felt as if you have hope and then your it disappears as you realise the person you like is 'married' on Facebook?
Have you ever felt as if your dreams are shattered?

I wonder if anybody thinks about the single people out there. Do they realise that there are other people out there in the world apart from them? It was once said that love is like magic but really magic is an illusion. That statement is actually true. If you think about it, you have love which is 'beautiful, divine and fulfills your life. Magic which most people believe in as 'fake' which is an illusion.
Love is an illusion.

He stole my heart.
We've heard that many times haven't we? He sweept us off our feet and then he broke our heart just like you shatter glass. He won't care how much he hurts you but he will break your heart to let you know that you are rejected by him. He wants to tell you that you are no longer useful to him and he wants someone else in his life. This is where rejection comes in.

Being rejected is not nice. Depending on what time of idiot, he is, your guy can humiliate you and dump you in frount of his friends or he can be a bit more sweet-hearted and tell you he no longer loves you in person. It is defined as rejection being 'to throw'. In other words, that short definition is basically saying that love can be thrown away so easily. Which is why you have to be careful as you will have no idea of what it can do to you.

We all know whether it is love or friendship that rejection is hard. If it is telling someone that they're rejected or you are being rejected, always remember that love is never perfect nor define like it is shown in beautiful love stories.

What do I do when my heart was stolen but is now broken?

Matchmaking

As most of you know, I was in Japan. During my time there, I had so many amazing experiences. One in particular which has everything to do with love.
Well, I was at conceret rehearsel and me and other foreigners were sitting with the other Japanese girls. They said that they were bored and wanted us to play a game with us. So, they explained to us that we were to tap the boy we wanted as our boyfriend on the shoulder. As each of us went through, I stood there thinking which one I wanted. Half of them were already taken so it was a hard decision. :)

Which brings me to my next point.

JAPANESE MATCHMAKING.

What exactly makes a matchmaker a good one? What are the qualities they look for in some one so they are perfect for their soul mate? I should really go and see one. I wonder how much it costs for an appointment. What if they're not correct and I end up with someone who I really hate?

Japanese girls are so cute. I wish one day I could live in their world. They are obsessed with love and take every opportunity to make the most of it. Except the only difference is that the people who they matchmake don't get married which is a good thing because I am too young to get married at the moment.

I was actually researching matchmaking and it said that countries such as North America, they use social dance to get the two people meeting together for the first time. In Singapore, a technological matchmaking system is availible.

It is also said that matchmakers rely on personality tests to match you up with someone who they believe is 'perfect' for you. They think that you will spend the rest of your life with them.

So, now that I have left you with my matchmaking research. Let me leave you a though.

What does it mean by two people 'perfect'for each other?
xx

Valentine's Day

Is there a time where you feel lonely on Valentine's Day?

During Japanese at school, I was reading Taniya's mystery story. However, it was more of a love story than a mystery. It was set on Valentine's Day.
While I was reading it, it occurred to me that I have spent Valentine's Day single every year. I have never spent it with someone special. Just my boring self.

It's just like that movie 'Valentine's Day'. I'm Jessica Biel and Jessica Alba. Jessica Biel's character is a girl who no one is in love with and her closest companion is her Blackberry. Jessica Alba's character is about a girl who is desperate for love and is almost offended when she hears the word love or the number 2 as she is single and in maths language, would be only number 1.
I wonder when the day of Valentine's Day will be not be spent being depressed and all alone.

Now, in English, we kept talking about Romeo and Juliet. Mrs Tobin talked about sanctified love and how in Shakespeare's time, true love was like a spiritual world where your souls meet. However if you have unsanctified love, it is only like you are physically attracted and not 'destined' to be together like Romeo and Juliet. Let me all tell you something.
It is not everyday you will meet someone who you think you are 'sanctifingly' in love with. Which is the difficult thing. It seems impossible to be in so much love as Romeo and Juliet were.

I wonder though if love is worth worrying about or is it that we are just lonely. I wish that my life was just Romeo and Juliet, well sort of, all except for the dying part.
I hope that I will meet my 'Romeo' and be in Juliet's position.
Okkk..fine. you win. DREAMS OVER.
We all wish that love could be perfect just that first time.

But is perfect love possible?