Been meaning to come over here and do some posts off and on but haven't had many fun or happy things to share for a few years.
So I guess I'll just get it off my chest with what may get me suspended for a week or so on the platform I work on - guess that is somewhat amusing.
This 'girl' from Nepal decides to tell me that she just got her certification for a very low-level healing form (extremely limited healing form type and this 'certification' she was bragging about is literally a 2-hour class if even that long).
She was obviously trying to piss me off and being a jerk... belittling my clients, their healing process, and that they continue to book with me... like I'm not doing my job and healing them. What her small brain fails to realize is that many people have absolutely horrible childhoods, filled with high trauma, extreme mental/physical abuse, repeated suicide attempts, severe depression episodes, or their narcissistic victim patterns that have morphed into being a narcissist in their own ways as a victim and pushing that wounding onto others, plus the fact that many of those 'sessions' I was literally talking to them via the phone or skype (from the USA to Australia) to talk them off a damn window ledge. But no, she has no clue that people have huge wounding and will heal at their own pace, has needs that are going to take time to unravel the wounding attached to it so they can empower themselves. Her 2-hour certified ass decides that I'm not doing my job (with 34 years of training/experience on top of being a natural-born healer) and know what I'm doing. Obviously, she is so much more qualified to take my client ... fucking arrogant newbie wench.
But the funny part is that I reported her for belittling my clients and saying it is not her place to say who they have or trust to heal them, and how long that process takes. Healing doesn't happen overnight. It's ugly, very uncomfortable, and makes you grow as a human being - but it also shifts you into a better/happier place in life as you are not so dragged down by the recycling of issues from childhood over and over again in new ways.
So I tell her a few truthful facts about healing that she obviously wasn't told in her barely-there training class, the basic facts that how as a 'healer' you have to be respectful & honor your clients, you do not belittle them or how long it takes them to heal, nor throw them aside if they are taking time to heal...she thinks you can be done healing in a single session or something. So her words were to throw them away basically as that they are addicted to the healing energies or are not getting what they need or you are not doing your job as a healer if they book you several times. Which is stupid as so many times, the person she was targeting books for her family, pets, and friends along with herself... just happens to use the same 'gig' as that is the one she is used to ordering with and I adjust where needed.
The WannaBe attention-seeking newbie healer was making unfounded judgments based on a severely depressed person making a positive review is not a way to find fault with the healer or the client... you don't target other people's clients with criticism either, that is completely uncalled for and unprofessional... also show she doesn't have the people skills to be a healer either. The review the wench was discussing was after the client has literally not showered for 3 months, nor cleaned her home, washed any clothes, was behind in paying her bills even though she has more than enough money to pay them, and not gotten out of bed for most of that time before I started working on her again. This client returns when she's ready- booking a series of sessions about once a year... so the addiction theory is also not correct... the client like so many, had just hit rock bottom and needed help, finally reaching out. That is brave to finally hit that realization and definitelynot something to be criticized or belittled, she started to take the steps needed to do some self-care and start living again.
... and then
... I told her to take her over-inflated, unqualified-to-be-a-healer narcissistic bullying self and shove it up her selfish biased ass and choke on it.
Then sent in the request to ban needing to ever talk to her stupid-ass again or ever have to deal with her as a client (I flatly refuse) and filed a complaint.
This also means that they will also notice my comment ... along with the fact I said she was belittling my clients, who she has never talked to nor worked with... knows any of their needs/traumas... and bitching about the fact that they book sessions with me. That is not up to her in any manner, so keep her away from me and my clients.
Ah well, guess I can use a suspension as a time to game, do some actual Livestreams (I forgot how! - that really sounds stupid doesn't it lol), and look for a new platform to work on. The one I work on completely sucks.
So I guess I'll go drool over my fave game villain for a bit and then head to bed. Sorry to bore you with a snarky update, but this is real life and some people are jerks to those that are suffering and abuse the ones helping them as a form of entertainment. I don't lose my temper very often and I actually didn't until I thought about how she was really demeaning the clients, then I let her have it. I feel better, needed to stand up for the clients as they don't even realize it happened, but one day she could be hocking her services on the platform and they end up there... I'd like the platform to already have her flagged as inappropriate or outright ban her/her IP address. No one deserves that type of person as the one they try to rely on in times of need.
Well, goodnight. Off to drool over Logan for a bit, there's a new expansion update coming out in a few days and I need to get prepared for it. Maybe I'll post some funny stuff from my game soon. My gaming pc is overflowing with silly pictures, videos, gifs, and other stuff to share.
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*made a few edits as I realized I was tired and missed a few words or put them in a way that could be confusing.
Off to work again. I seem to be okay for now... they banned the wench since she was harassing me and my clients, not really asking me anything or contacting me with any intent to be a client herself in any manner... and then told me to tone it down a bit but that she had no right to say that about my clients or harass me so that was good. I was shocked too, they are notorious for allowing clients or others to bully their sellers and not support us. Oh well, my response to her is still under review though, so I may end up with a few unexpected days off anyway. I just wouldn't be able to take new orders, but could continue to work on the large queue of orders I currently have. This time of year brings out a lot of weird harassing people seeking attention. I keep getting lewd offers or outrageous demands that there is no way I'm ever going to do or consider. So I've been reporting a lot of people in the last few weeks again.