Oh i have had some horrible jobs too. my previous job... i have a million things i can say of why i left. number one was being harassed on a daily basis by a coworker that somehow thought he was my manager even though he had no credentials or anything. he would constantly ask me if my work was done and then "SIGH LOUDLY" as he walked away. apparently i annoyed him so much. well why then just leave me alone, stay away frm me? no every day he was bothering me with something and then sighing with annoyance loudly as he walked away. unbelievable harassment. when i mention this to my boss she gets annoyed AT ME. how would she feel having to deal with this on a daily basis?
Then i had the women who acted nice to my face but actually hated me. why? because i was nice and didn't gang up on their 'enemies' at the job. i didn't allow they problems with other people to affect how i treated those people. so in turn they hated me. but it wasn't just that. they hated me because i'm nice, lighthearted, trying to be friendly... they would roll their eyes at me constantly in my face. all they wanted to do at lunch was gossip about the women in the office they hated. so the fact that i was steering the conversation to other things angered them, especially the evil 'leader' of the group. even the one that was supposedly my friend would give sideeye glances to brittany as i was making conversation. apparently i was not allowed to bring up anything about my old job, to bring up my skills. if i complimented the one with the ego, then she liked me. otherwise she would roll her eyes at my face. i had never been treated so rudely by people in my face. but it was great because then i also found out from the ego one that 'leader' hated me and talked about me all the time. for what? for being nice? for being friendly? for not wanting to participate in gossip? i think they just hated my personality because i wasn't evil like them. i should have never even talked to them in the first place but miss ego was obsessed with me being with her. horrible people. then my supervisor was such a stuck up snob! i had to take a shuttle with her in the morning and she would never say goodmorning to me but would say it to other 'higher ups' .... i would say hi or goodmorning and get a snotty stare back from 'miss thing' and then ignored. unbelievable. how is someone like that in a supervisor position? she was really gorgeous too so i guess she thought she was too good to lower herself and speak to me. what a snob.
so yeah that was a freaken nightmare. oh and even the shy lady who started working with me at the same time was actually psycho. she screamed at me when i asked her a question. then she felt bad and tried to be friendly with me after. i felt like she only did that to me because i'm the 'nice one' so she felt like she could verbally abuse me. i did not appreciate that. so being the 'nice one' got me ridiculed, snapped at, and talked about. it was horrible. a horrible experience. by the end i was crying every day when i got home and thinking about giving up on life... they really knew how to make me feel horrible. another horrible 'american' workplace where you get tortured emotionally on a daily basis.
Then i had the women who acted nice to my face but actually hated me. why? because i was nice and didn't gang up on their 'enemies' at the job. i didn't allow they problems with other people to affect how i treated those people. so in turn they hated me. but it wasn't just that. they hated me because i'm nice, lighthearted, trying to be friendly... they would roll their eyes at me constantly in my face. all they wanted to do at lunch was gossip about the women in the office they hated. so the fact that i was steering the conversation to other things angered them, especially the evil 'leader' of the group. even the one that was supposedly my friend would give sideeye glances to brittany as i was making conversation. apparently i was not allowed to bring up anything about my old job, to bring up my skills. if i complimented the one with the ego, then she liked me. otherwise she would roll her eyes at my face. i had never been treated so rudely by people in my face. but it was great because then i also found out from the ego one that 'leader' hated me and talked about me all the time. for what? for being nice? for being friendly? for not wanting to participate in gossip? i think they just hated my personality because i wasn't evil like them. i should have never even talked to them in the first place but miss ego was obsessed with me being with her. horrible people. then my supervisor was such a stuck up snob! i had to take a shuttle with her in the morning and she would never say goodmorning to me but would say it to other 'higher ups' .... i would say hi or goodmorning and get a snotty stare back from 'miss thing' and then ignored. unbelievable. how is someone like that in a supervisor position? she was really gorgeous too so i guess she thought she was too good to lower herself and speak to me. what a snob.
so yeah that was a freaken nightmare. oh and even the shy lady who started working with me at the same time was actually psycho. she screamed at me when i asked her a question. then she felt bad and tried to be friendly with me after. i felt like she only did that to me because i'm the 'nice one' so she felt like she could verbally abuse me. i did not appreciate that. so being the 'nice one' got me ridiculed, snapped at, and talked about. it was horrible. a horrible experience. by the end i was crying every day when i got home and thinking about giving up on life... they really knew how to make me feel horrible. another horrible 'american' workplace where you get tortured emotionally on a daily basis.