How to develop children's character?I'm Angel, new year, new hope, we all year older. In all of them, of course, among the most happy child, their greatest wish is to grow up quickly, so you can own call the shots; the most to worry about is my mother, 'how to develop children' has become the biggest problem in our hearts today to share with you, 'Dongji mother' of two articles: I hope that does not become a victim of her daughter under the education system, my mother would like. As you say ..... Dongji mother hope: you have to figure out the script of his life - not your parents' sequel, prequel is not your child, but not your friends outside the articles Nike Blazer Mens do not for others, lost yourself. You are your own first, in order to become someone else or who. I hope we all work together, do not say 'stupid' to children. This is not reimbursing spoil the child when the mother only lays down the law, does not allow other sound. Children need someone to accompany them, not hiding in an ivory tower from above them yelling. What is self-confidence which is a self-identification of self-worth. self-confidence is very important. confidence is very important. Chinese style The educational process, in the course of culture among children, parents practice, often a child's self-confidence in defeat. Let the child's self-confidence more low. often the child will say, 'how can you be so stupid,' I will be in front Other children face said, 'how do you it will not, it will not.' I do not know, your daughter will be like in the future inner feelings. But I can tell you, my mom's childhood experience. child's mother is a silly naive child. Your mother has always been a high academic achievers red, cute boast smart kids from school in his hometown of Wuhan, the best primary school, to obtain the best results. to go to Hong Kong, it is still the most read Good primary, secondary and even university. We two grew up together. Mom is that with the end of man. followed her back to run. all acts no small adult behavior, did not give you the grandparents take the show off the results. Remember Everyone's eyes only her, but her mother would like to say something now, you encounter various problems red mom now, the first time is to find her mother consigliere, whether in the workplace or emotional. with her, not me, and she may not have today The position is to teach her mother into the company familiar with the environment, to build their own community, and how to create a platform to communicate with the boss, how timely to express themselves, how to select the new company. mother encouraged her to apply for vice president. is accompanied by her mother The first emotion, to answer all the questions she met in affection. She said her mother was her guide. Then, finally you go to Hong Kong red teenage mother, and my mother moved my grandfather to the dormitory unit, which all have a background with a high quality of people. Then appeared a few years younger than my mom and sister. She is also very smart, when we have a bunch of kids playing cards, she always win. always remember that your grandfather and mother a team, a team she and her father and I are long lost grandfather. grandfather on my mother stared at his eyes kind of harsh. Mom would say stupid. You know, when my mother was really sad. while fear side cry. overwhelmed. The sister because confident, more able to count the cards freely. And then the mother, the whole brain is only your grandfather vision and fear no longer see the hands of the card. hands of cards more important, whether it is good or bad cards, myself how can maximize the advantages of good cards to play, can avoid the disadvantage of bad cards on light, is our life every step to consider the matter can be is the case, Mom, did not go to their hand .... mom to now very low self-esteem, but have learned how to overcome it. In crowded places, my mother was not very talkative, I like to observe others. mom now, very confident or very envious of those in the crowd inside jokes woman. What is home? hope home is able to cultivate children's self-confidence of the place can make children's self-confidence, self-worth kids feel very high. However, often the opposite, so she hurt her low self-confidence, self-confidence so that she did not place? What often comes from? often from family. I hope in the future at home, try to say all the facts, say their true feeling. These are some of the challenges for adults, only adults grow up, children will grow up. Otherwise, these will become the child's life pain. Our words and deeds are important, the most feared human predecessors not the same face. blossom in front of people laugh, boast the praise with, just to the so-called Chinese-style etiquette and upbringing. People started after each other all sorts of chatter. Children are the most intelligent people in the world, the child's sensitivity to more slender than adults, can not educate their children has become a hypocritical who obviously do not like to be installed some time ago, my mother looked at the ancient rule of hypocrisy teacher parenting courses which referred to:.. emotional ------- is our joy, happiness, anger, sadness so, emotions, worry Yan distress, these are the emotional stuff, right? Also includes a calm mind is not calm, this is what you? This is the mood. So we have to recognize clearly, emotional, with morality, it is irrelevant . with right and wrong is irrelevant. In the past tradition, parental education, things like against humanity, when children are angry, teaching children to do a good boy, are not allowed to playing patience, are not allowed to make, are not allowed There are far too many. To allow the child to get angry, so he has the right to be angry. Do not deprive people angry. We often disenfranchised people angry. does not allow him angry. think he can not get angry when the child is very sad, very sad, do not say you can not be sad, not sad, to be strong. are invalid. clear? sad, sad. This is normal. sad does not mean weak. sad like our skin , a knife and cut, and will not bleed? This is normal. If the heart can not afford to hurt the tears, it is not the person has been distorted. The most normal is the most normal children. People have slowly become not people when angry sad, do not tell the truth, not a lesson. Do not give methods do not give advice. Do not advised. The things that are invalid because the sad when what he wanted? comfort, understanding , support and recognition. Remember, human nature wants is this thing rather than to, we often give a rational thing, truth, reason with him and tell him, counseled him, you should now how to do it. This thing is not his want, is not human nature to be something. Sad, sad, cry not weak weak, it is the pain. Once people understand the reasons for their emotions happen, people will be able to progress. Note that it is important to understand their own emotions. Emotional itself there is no danger, real danger emotions are ignored, denied, rejected, repressed and do not show that emotions will distort personality. very painful, so emotional in itself, and no, not terrible. terrible is repressed is ignoring this is the most important thing today mom, mother the group know a good friend she and her mother have a lot of sympathy, she said:... carrying the ideals of his father, trying to get ahead in the professional field, but also for their parents struggling to get rid of all the halo, very tired. I do not want my daughter to live so tired, I want her to be more exciting to live from me. I expect to have a daughter. And no secret to say that expectations are high, I hope she can finish their life dreams, even my best piece is also complete, but as you say, she should be responsible for my own life dream is in fact my life: happy to do it yourself, do what you want things, love want love. my mother forever good and strong, want their children to succeed, I hope now I let my kids come out ahead. I have clearly told her that I would not interfere too much in my child's choice, but will try to give I can give her. After all, this is my child, not her. I am the person very revel, also inert, everything will not Taimian Jiang himself and others, so I will never be like my mother forced her son, my father forced to persecute me like my daughter, I want her to grow up happy and carefree. can not say that the most outstanding aspects of their children, but I must let her know from childhood, they have strengths that others do not, my mother knew, she should also recognize her after school, learning can not top-notch, but she must have a unique happy childhood, after all, everyone has only one childhood. have a negative impact gloomy bleak childhood will later in Nice Nike Lunar Force 1 Fuse NRG Unisex Red White Shoes life. 'daughter, my mother would like to say to you ...... mother in his formative years, have been thinking about what they ought to do a kind of person. warm, real, Ganaiganhen To know how to love themselves and others. Mom has a lot of ideal mother think after running his own business, have their own paradise on earth, in the world to create and run your own, get to know some of the affinity of people to their world knowledge and experience, but also to guide younger than some of her mother junior who Mom very much hope that through their own strength to help the people, through their own warm to infect others, because in 20 years of life on the mother road, is known to have met a lot of elegant, her mother saw the bigger wider world . understand the trade-offs and wait. Mom wanted to become the kind of person they are, about the faith because you come, my mother had to put aside his social position, and her mother and some lost their self-worth. mother also reduce a lot of recreational activities Mom has recently been in Taobao, may father grandmother grandfather could not understand why her mother has been in the online Zhaoyazhaoya because mom looking! mother while looking for their ideal, that sounds funny. Just look for the ideal and have never been the same specific things! It is a belief that support your beliefs stand in the heart of the turmoil of the floating world. It is, perhaps now her mother unable to income, it may not let my mother down to earth. But, it indeed exists. I think Mom does not lose it, and finally one day it will erupt. People die, life has a lot of time to find, get unexpected by finding happiness and surprise, as well as harvest! happened to my mother to find a shop, which the owner is a very beautiful girl, she should be most of the girls want to become the kind of woman. possession of wealth, good background, very self-cultivation, beautiful, atmospheric, she Fun to countries around the world's most luxurious hotel, looking for some obscure but Representative souvenirs, opened this store, not in order to live, just to share some words she wrote, is to give all to her friend to see the store:. 'My family often do not know how to understand me, daughter, their hearts are going to the United States finished the MASTER and stay living in North America, and like many of my elders strive to do the same in their respective areas of outstanding and I have to do now, the gap is too far. Even if I say just my would like to take some time to have some time to walk instead of wasting the time to do interesting things, such as inferior to open this lovely little shop they still difficult to understand, they are difficult to understand too much I'll buyer indifference and sad words I would lay down meal sat at the computer to answer a question someone another, no way, though rice point, but if I did not immediately return a lot of people will be unhappy, if the rice cools and if you can exchange pleasure is a good thing; after all, what the situation is seriously go 'mother saw those words, very touching to the owner aunt replied.' inadvertently find these stores, like this kind of music like you photos. revealing tranquility. Maybe, it seems there is not much the goal is very clear, so that you, in fact, there are more than ordinary heart is more ideal. It is because of this ideal, we can support you do not mind others vision. Because of this ideal, just let your heart exceptionally quiet, practical, perhaps this is a belief in this earthly, holding their own beliefs and the Reality! 'on standby mother likes telling Clearly his life in The first three years there is no achievement, no trace of exciting. So, my mother has been waiting for. A lot of people like to wait understood as nothing, nothing. Mom did not understand this wait ..... it takes courage and perseverance Brave accept other people's cynical, sarcastic and be comfortable with those eyes underestimate Heart to calm, to be deeply rooted in the land of the kind of guidance. Believe in yourself, believe they can. Remember Grandma's favorite stimulate mother used to say other girls, some pick-up someone on his birthday holidays, there has to accompany the cheers have gifts. mother always smiled, then mother likes quiet, her mother's gambling is high. Some look like bet like ordinary, somewhat into the future of human life. Therefore, mothers wait until your father. He's fine, he let the mother's life had a very stable enough. In contrast, those who have accompanied girlfriends flowers but now I lived lonely life worry Mom is trying to tell you, the day is long, do not lie in a moment of the gain and loss. To know what they have, what they thought, to what! what kind of life you want, you can To become the kind of person ..... do not be afraid of all the 'now' unsatisfactory. Life will have a low operating height. Like life and movement, was interesting to walk slowly. so early overdraft with bare yourself good luck, and after it, especially a woman, 30 years after the beginning of real life. Do not for a number of small favors, flowers car lost your direction today about the ideal mother group, the majority of mothers heard to say ' feel about it, put all their hopes on her daughter, I hope she can fulfill my dream. 'Mom would say,' Your dream is you're done, your daughter has her dreams, she could not bear you! ' The most interesting is that you now take care of her aunt Guo said this: 'Do not let your child to assume responsibility for your dreams we can do is take care of the children grow up, and what they want to do, we do not want to interfere. The mother is too selfish, why should children bear this responsibility to the children that much pressure, 'Mother loved so forthright Guo aunt. Frank has guts. is a courageous woman. But she woke up too night. Her life some shortcomings. In her most should make choices for their own life, she regressed, concession, so that today's distressed mother, trying to tell you. You should have their own ideals. You can brave to practice it, you can just think about it, over a normal life because of ideals, very hard. Mom had always cried myself to start a company and become entrepreneurs. to assume their responsibility to society and so my mother really opened the company in the future , only to find that all successful people are not just luck, it does take a lot of effort and patience. the kind of hardships, and only experienced people will understand. Luck is only part of Nike Air Max 2015 the power required to practice, continue to support your strength If you are willing to do it, my mother very much hope to tell your mother's experience and judgment and you accept the premise of going to help you. If you think about it just empty, so my mother to accompany you dream together, 2015 Latest Nike Shoes fantasy everything you like. Mom has several The diary, which recorded a lot of interesting words of hope in the future and my daughter to share a woman and I have the same idea, she said:... 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To be happy, be cheerful, be tenacious, to warm. No matter what the character. I'm afraid you are too low-key, sometimes a little tough, being bullied, be sure to get back to! But do not bear grudges, 'the premise of tolerance also requires you to clear the wrongs, given a choice, Huili immortal, knowing falsehood. To understand right and wrong, to be true to it, can not be confused, yes, we must dare to express fierce intellect wrong but also calm acceptance, courage to admit. Mom wants you to learn courage, everyone will be afraid, will have to make their own fear things Mom fear snakes and phone calls. time before beginning work, others are afraid of summary report, the mother is not afraid, but very happy to do it. But his mother was afraid to call, especially someone around, but you need to complete a job, mom afraid afraid of saying the wrong thing Mom, clear expression, will listen to the people around will mind will blame me, when mom's boss perceptible this point, because my mother always carries his phone, ha ha. Fortunately, there are many elegant mother hit, thinking he was a simple American, often with The easiest way to solve the problem. He assured her that I can help you overcome it. 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