Interpersonal relationships in the three roles mind and a balanced approachcommunication between people, can be divided into three different mentality, that is the parents' attitude, adult mentality and the mentality of children have such an example: the three business partners, and finally lost, A said: 'all blame you there is no real skill, and your partner is really bad, 'B said:'! I think this a loss for several reasons, first, the three of us thought different, an effort not to make one second is to work, there are some objective. The resistance 'prop said:' all my fault, I did not do a good job, will you forgive me, I will correct, we still do it then, 'this conversation, armor avuncular tone, accusing two colleagues. obviously a parents' attitude; B is very calm, like a steady, sensible as Man belongs adult mentality; prop it like a child, like were wrong in Air Jordan 20 general, he kept beg your indulgence, it is in the mind of children In fact, each of Jordan Aero Mania us there is a self among these three roles mentality. When we are in the parents 'attitude, was there 'must do,' 'should do,' the idea. the parents' Classic Nike Air Force 1 Mens White Shoes attitude and be divided into two : an expression for the people mean, like pick shortcomings of others, but it is easier for another person reveal a person's emotional state of mind belongs to which parent form, is obtained from the parents of a child where the parents love for us how long. We have a big kind Air Jordan 5 of parents' attitude when in adult mentality, we seem calm, rational, objective, not picky people, nor impulsive self-willed, strong-minded we are, there are plans to do whatever, chicken do not panic. And When a child is in mind, we will behave emotionally, things without considering the consequences, and emotional instability, affected almost everyone in the process of interaction with others, have had the mentality of these three, but the proportion varies only in Life, we often encounter some fixed roles were. populace in the parents' attitude is very fond of criticizing others, or force you to accept suggestions, or just like to interfere in other people's lives, take care of you as a child. Of course, energy long to get along with only those 'children for life' who. 'Lifelong children' are Special Nike Air Force 1 Unisex Blue White Shoes those who long in child psychology, even live to be five or six years old, in all aspects of their behavior, manners and thinking are just like a little children. They usually no assertive, always rely on others when more often also refused to take responsibility, work flow 2015 Latest Nike Shoes in the impulse, life need someone to look after and care. When dealing with people, they like interesting, won praise. And People in long-term adult mentality like pure logical thinking, they do things very rational, very little about feelings, often known as 'cold-blooded.' They rarely humor in life, time is arranged to the brim, to get along with them is a very tedious thing. From the above analysis, we can see any kind of individual self-development role in mind, will make their character development is unbalanced, which in turn directly affects our relationships are discordant. So, how to adjust their own, Three make self-balanced mind? We have to understand their application in the proportion of three roles interpersonal mindset. This requires you to record your interactions with people within a week in the role of mind, study together three the proportion will be much clearer mentality. understand the mentality of the proportion of the three after they can consciously with Authentic Nike Air Force 1 High Womens Black Yellow Shoes people in reducing the proportion of the highest kind of mentality, the mentality of the other two to improve. If you find yourself frequently with the parents' attitude with people intercourse, you should pay attention to objectively observe, learn to listen, less critical, critical of others, every right to adopt the recommendations of others. make your life a little more casual and emotional, you will certainly be much happier. If you are a very rational person, You'd better lower your adult mind a bit. You can try to make yourself relax and allow their feelings appropriately and give vent to suggest you regularly watch some comedy or jokes, let yourself have fun like children. If you are frequently children in mind, then you can calmly analyze the best failing to prevent emotional; preferably every ask yourself, 'I want to do', and not worry about other people's preferences, in order to avoid loss of self; best to train yourself accountable to someone, rather than rely on others too much. In interpersonal relationships, each of us should pay attention to what is in their own mind, on different occasions to identify the most appropriate role attitude with people. I believe that you will have a lot of friends, become a very popular man. From the 'psychological world'