a long long long time no see~ ^ ^

really a long time haven't write in here
exam finished on 20th
and went home last week
but feel busy in hk
go out for friends and visit grandma
go to church and help my mom to take care the children
and try to talk to friends too
too long time haven't talk to them
although saw some of you guys leave me peta
but haven't write to you all very often...
sorry about that
but, with best wishes all the time
hope that all of you are happy
remember all of you >v^

thanks for the mails from you all ^ ^
always happy to recieve the mails from you
so happy for me

Love is selfish, give and two-way road

try to share something of love
in last 10 years, I think a lot of love
what is love, how to love, way to love, etc.
but I only got something of it
honestly, I don't think that I can totally understand what is love in my lifetime
but I know ture love is huge, is difficuit, etc.
wanted to talk about selfish, give and two-way road

selfish, give and two-way is the basic concept of love
that seems easy, but lots of people always forget
forget three of them without love is not a big deal
but in the case of love, that is not a good thing to forget

love is selfish
that is the easy part to understand
love, always make people think about themselves
this is normal and forgiveable
in my book, anyone who don't know how to love himself
he also don't know how to love others
but, every thing can't be "to much"
too selfish will lead you can't possess love

why? "love is give"
that's why
in love, giving much important than recieve
it sounds pretty silly to love like that
but love should be like that
if you wanted to be loved
you love first, that is the best way to be loved

but, you love him/her is not enough
because love is a two-way road
although love should be giving
but love establish on a "two-way" communication
if love just base on one of a couple
that is not a healthy relationship
love is a thing that between two people
understand, share, operate, change and give
every thing should be done by two of them

understand the side of selfish of ourself
learn to give for love
and try to love together with the cup of tea of yourself
this is the basic concept of love
and I think that is what people should think about before begin a relationship
that must help you a lot if you prepared yourself before to love

hope can share something good to you

love you all



p.s. to piano: I got your message ^ ^ check e-mail~~ I send you mail~~ looking forward to yours

愛．新生．愛一生

愛是恆久忍耐, 又有恩慈;

"愛是不嫉妒, 不自夸, 不張狂,

不作害羞的事, 不求自己的益處,

不輕易發怒, 不計較人的惡,

不喜歡不義, 只喜歡真理;

凡是包容, 凡事相信,

凡事盼望, 凡事忍耐

愛是永不止息的" 聖經林前13:4~8上


引用一段聖經作為開場白

倒不是向大家講耶穌

不過, 先不當聖經是一種宗教書籍

就如佛家的一些思想一樣

有些人生道理還真是很有意思

在我個人最看重的個人特質:愛

在聖經中的這段,

我覺得真的可以為大家作一個標準: 何為愛


在現今世界中,

愛被看成沒價值, 沒用的東西

看重愛的人更被人所輕視

覺得是比較弱的一群

但社會上年複一年的傳下的意識

慢慢產生了一個冰冷的社會

慢慢變成一個沒愛的世界


真正的愛, 真誠的愛不知不覺的變成一種珍貴而且稀有的物品

由不相信外世的人

慢慢不相信朋友, 家人

最後連自己的枕邊人也變成一個不可信的陌生人

難道大家不覺得這是一件非常可悲的事嗎?


這幾天, 從因愛心死

到因愛再生

一死一生中回想

我雖然講了多麼愛的想法

我自己又做到了多少呢?

我到現在還是十分的膚淺

道理是每一個人都容易懂得的

但是能做得到又有多少個?


懂得愛而能夠愛一生才是真正的人

愛家人, 愛朋友,

能愛身邊的人還不夠

真正的愛, 是要連自己的敵人也要愛

希望今天的一段聖經能帶給大家一點點的感動

得到愛一生的力量與堅持


sorry that post a chinese essay to here
but that is one of my essay write on the other blog about love wanted to share
all of you can translate it by the internet tool if you wanted to read it
thanks if you really do ^ ^;

http://user.qzone.qq.com/781632788
this is the blog I usually update when I'm in Guangzhou
welcome to check that out if you interested

it is getting cooler
minasan~ take care~~
love you all~~
always do~

David