Please stay away

My friend's cousin is Taobao and sells women's clothing.

Once a friend forwarded the link of cousin Taobao shop discount activities, was seen by a female colleague, found a friend, said that he liked a few clothes on the link sent by the friend, like it very much, want to let the friend talk, Some discount.

My friend told the co-worker about the requirements of this female colleague, and he suggested that the friend pass on that the quality and quality of the clothes they treated were not very good. If needed, there are new women's clothing in the store, which can be considered.

My friend conveyed the opinion of my cousin, this female colleague wanted these discounted clothes, and did not consider the new women's clothing. In this way, because he was an acquaintance, my friend let his cousin get another 10% discount on the basis of the original discount.

A few days later, after the clothes arrived, the female colleague found her friend in anger, and threw the clothes directly on the friend's desk, saying that the quality was so poor and the color difference was so large that a refund was required.

My friend was embarrassed and apologized while comforting her. Thinking of my cousin's kind suggestion before, my friend was embarrassed to tell his cousin that he would pay her the money for clothes.

After the incident, my friends told me about this, saying that although the whole thing was small, they always felt awkward. I said I would stay away from this female colleague in the future. My friend said that she had blocked her circle of friends.

If it is normal online shopping, if you participate in the activity and find that the quality of the thing is not good, it is reasonable to ask the owner to refund it. But in this matter, the friend played a role of helping, and helped her cut the price again. If you find that the quality of the clothes is not refundable, at least thank the friend first, and from the beginning to the end, you haven't heard the female colleague thank you, even if there is no grateful look.

I remembered that when I was in college, Xiao Zhao and I came back from the outside. When we walked to the dormitory, Xiao Zhao received a call from Xiao Zhang of the dormitory to help bring back a box lunch. The box lunch is on Food Court Street outside the school, and we are almost walking downstairs at this time.

Xiao Xiaozhao hung up the phone and asked me to go back first and go back by myself to help Xiao Zhang buy a box lunch outside the school. I first returned to the dormitory. After ten minutes, Xiao Zhao returned and handed the box lunch to Xiao Zhang.

As soon as Xiao Xiaochang opened the box lunch, he complained, "What kind of dishes are these? I don't like any of them. You can eat this box lunch by yourself, I can't eat it." After all, handed the box lunch to Xiao Zhao, and then opened the door directly, completely disregarding the local Xiao Zhao.

I am also from this incident, we are far from Xiao Zhang, until graduation, he was depressed for a long time, saying that he did not have close friends in college, even the dormitory people deliberately alienated him.

I was thinking to myself, does a person who does not know how to be grateful have friends?

There are also many such people in your life. Zhangkou asks you to help. If what you do happens to be what he expected, he feels at most right. So unfortunately, what you did was not what he expected, and he instantly complained and turned his back on him.

British writer William Mekbis Thackeray said: "If a person receives a benevolence and later goes against the benefactor, he must take care of his decentness, and must be more vicious than an unrelated stranger. Sin can explain his ruthlessness. "A person who never knows what is grateful is all about his own little bit of frivolity, but also a selfish person.

We all need friends. We go out and carve our own lives, but we are never alone, because friends are everywhere. To be a person in advance is to be valuable and to have a heart that is always grateful. Friends help you, that is a great kind of kindness, remember in your heart, no friend has business to help you.