Chances are the T-shirt and shorts your wife
wears to bed are comfy, but certainly not sexy. A friend of mine once told me
that his now ex-wife used to sleep in turtlenecks. Okay, I think we all agree
that’s not sexy lingerie. A girlfriend of mine bought a chopper bra to wear on
her husband’s birthday. The next day she squealed with delight as she recounted
his reaction. Clearly, that was
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for her on her birthday. She did not find it sexy at all! The first lesson in
lingerie is that what's sexy is in the eye of the beholder.
O
ne person can find a garment like crotchless panties
sexy while someone else will find them disgusting. One may find sheer lingerie
sexy while another prefers lace. So, how does a husband navigate this sexy
lingerie minefield when trying to buy their wife a sexy piece of lingerie? Here
are a few guidelines.
First, black is always safe. The color is sexy, but also slimming. Everyone
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first purchase. Don’t start with chopper bras and crotchless panties.
Begin with a sexy yet pretty negligee with lace and matching panties. Float
that balloon first. Based on the reaction and feedback, you can move up the
risqué meter to more sheer and more revealing items. And, of course, there are
costumes, but that should come later.
What to Look for When Shopping
It’s a lot easier if you know her sizes. If you don’t, take a look in her
lingerie drawer and check the label on a <a href="http://www.lingerieundersale.com/Officail-wholesale-corsets-outlet-c-899.html?page=2&sort=20a/"><STRONG>
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size should be right there—34B, 38DD, something like that. Panties are in sizes
usually from XS through XXL. Sometimes they’re numerical, ranging from about
5-10. You might also take a peak at brand names—especially on items she wears
all the time.
Now you’ve got the critical info—what to buy? Well, if you see quite a few of
the same brand, you can take it up a notch and choose a luxury item in that
brand. Or, how about buying her something you know she won’t buy for herself?
Some suggest that thongs are the most comfortable panties ever, but some women
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If you absolutely can’t find her sizes, you’ve got a few choices: guess and
hope for the best, ask her outright, or buy something not quite as dependent on
fit, like a silk nightgown or slinky robe.
Of course you’d like something you want to see her in, but if it’s too gimmicky
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but it won’t leave the drawer more than a few times a year—and that's probably
being generous. The key is to choose something that’ll let her know you think
she’s special, but will also be comfortable for her. Many women are so hung up
about body image that they don’t realize that, to the men who love them, they
are hot, hot, hot. So if you bought her a blender for the holidays or her
birthday, this is the time to go all out and show her how she looks in your
eyes.
Tomima Edmark is an entrepreneur with a series of unconventional successes.
As the creator of www.lingerieundersale.com
, a lingerie website for women, and the inventor
of the successful TopsyTail hair accessory, she has fine-tuned the lingerie
business to offer women high quality, good design, comfort, fit and value.
Tomima has been featured on Good Morning America and Oprah and in Forbes <a href="http://www.lingerieundersale.com/Officail-sexy-lingerie/babydoll-chemise-outlet-c-909_933.html/"><STRONG>Sexy
Lingerie</STRONG></a> Magazine and The Wall Street Journal.
