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Raising two special boys!

Hi !
I have two boys, both with unique special needs.
I am journaling my journey to navigate this strange place called world!

As the end of school year is approaching, we are trying to figure out our 5 year old son's kindergarten situation, which school will best serve him. 

 

Choice 1: Pembroke Elementary

LRC (Learning Resource Center) teacher: Ms. Leah Johnston 

https://www.linkedin.com/in/leah-johnston-32319895

Gen Ed Homeroom teacher : Unknown

 

what we know

丸ブルーHe will be sitting with typical peers 80-90% of the day in Gen Ed classroom with para professional

丸ブルーHe will go to LRC 30-45 min a day

丸ブルーHe will get a school bus but not sure it is curbside

丸ブルーGed Ed classroom will have up to 20 kids

丸ブルーHe will use the sensory room for PT, OT 

 

what we don't know 

丸レッドIf the support in Pembroke is enough for him 

丸レッドwe don't want him to suffer going to school, but also don't want to give up Inclusion in Ged Ed environment. 

 

Choice 2: Greenfield Elementary

CI (Cognitive Impairment) room teacher Mr. Benjamin White 

 

 

Gen Ed Homeroom teacher : Unknown

 

丸ブルーHe will spend (we don't know for sure but 50%-majority of his day) in Cognitive Impairment room. Rest of the time he will go to Gen Ed classroom. 

丸ブルーThere is a Buddy system where he will have his inclusion buddy 

丸ブルーHe can go in and out of sensory room as much as he want.

丸ブルーCI room has only 6 kids in the classroom , age K-5 mixed age, learning at their slower pace. 

丸ブルーHe gets picked up curbside

 

What we don't know 

丸レッドIf the amount of Inclusion in Ged Ed will increase over time

丸レッドIf there is a case of a student, who started in CI room and ended up in GenEd in middle school, or high school. 

 

 

It is a tough call for a parent of special need kid. 

Ultimately we will be responsible for the decision, not knowing how it affects him/ us. If we end up receiving calls from schools everyday, pointing out his problems and being reminded that he doesn't "belong" in Gen Ed, and he should just go to CI classroom, or being told that he is doing "fine" in the CI room, which is not a real world. It is a world created to best suit these little ones with special needs to learn at their pace. Which sounds like a perfect plan, but actually, I'm not sure. 

 

What we don't know the most, is if he learns better in a environment surrounded by peers that are more advanced than him, or peers that are at his speed. 

 

Coming from Germany, it is already frightening to send him to US public schools, without knowing the cultures. However I do believe Inclusion best serves him. He was in Waldorf kindergarten, and he was happy and we were happy to see him making friends with typical peers. I just want to make sure, he will be in good hands in Pembroke. 

 

The positive effect inclusion will bring to our loved ones :

https://www.nads.org/wp-content/uploads/2017/06/A_Summary_of_the_evidence_on_inclusive_education.pdf?fbclid=IwAR1SH_ReFNxiHEpotUgBw6gJrPiE-HB5-TOCG1jkBPFzz-cLliiqWT55Ylk