Jia ping-wa said: "it is willing to give up a philosophy, is also a kind of art."

Willing to give up two words looks be like simple, actually full of philosophy and wisdom, this paper has a lot of the ancients, as is a blessing, a little neglect may breed great mischief is said "homes" and "get" the relationship. "Lao zi" also have such 1: "will take to the solid and will be." Mean, want to seize it, will first give it, this is the first "homes" and then to "get", our ancient thousands of years ago is concluded this truth, the tao-te this philosophy in this very comprehensive, don't understand this truth, who often touch came.

Shi-ji YueWang GouJian family "have a such a description: in YueWang assist fan li GouJian destroyed wu" is its light after with jade, with its private since the orb of boat float the sea and to do, not the end." Seclusion up and change of name. "Farming, the sea side, committed to the painstaking, father and son, not to produce" how long to hundreds of thousands of property. After the "tao" hiding in this place, who calls himself "tao ZhuGong", his little son also grows. When fan li the second son of killed, and was imprisoned in chu. When fan li understand, kill people for a life, this is part of the natural order of things, but the common saying "the son of the daughter in city", meaning the undead daughter is the son of his execution should not die, and let the younger son went to visit, fan li and prepared a "gold", this is yi very big number. But when fan li's oldest son home on the firstborn, insist to should be made by him to do it, or too did not face, and to die mutually threat. When fan li but had to let eldest son to, and wrote a letter to his good friend ZhuangSheng, charged the older son, came to chu, send daughter to ZhuangSheng place, full ZhuangSheng processing, not by a lot of questions. The first son went, the way the first son who is hiding hundreds of gold. To find ZhuangSheng home, the first son chu, sending letters and a daughter, ZhuangSheng charged the first son get away from here, do not stay, wait till you get out to reason why don't many younger brother; But the first son and didn't listen to ZhuangSheng instead of entrust, with those who hide gold to bribe related senior officials of the state.

"The historical records" record: "ZhuangSheng negative guo, a home LiHuo to door, what the poor." The ZhuangSheng though poor, but is forced in chu is the "LianZhi", the whole nation is honour him for the teacher to deliver of gold, fan li, didn't even leave the meaning, just as a keepsake, charged his wife, don't move the money, and then return to matter into, but when fan li eldest son didn't understand. ZhuangSheng when we have the opportunity and the king said, see signs of a constellation of chu adverse, do good just can remove, the king of ZhuangSheng very trust, so ready to amnesty. By the first son of bribery official, who informed the the news to the older son, who think the king amnesty, the younger brother must be forgiven, daughter ZhuangSheng to give away, and the ZhuangSheng home, the king said to the amnesty, and are come to say goodbye, ZhuangSheng surprised the first son didn't leave this place, and understand what he is to want those gold, let the first son put those gold away, the older son was very happy.

ZhuangSheng be mocked the eldest son, very shame, and the king said, was prepared to do good, but we now say that is because public opinion outside pottery and public money, bribed officials at all levels, the amnesty for his second son is the state, not to do good. The king's wrath, and I didn't, but not to his son and amnesty, and ordered the first, the second son, put to death, the second day amnesty. So only the bones of the younger brother take back. Her mother and his family was very sad, but when fan li but say with smile, I know the first son did will hurt his younger brother, love not his younger brother, this is because the elder son is in poverty after I grew up in a difficult life, know, so value of money, and little son is rich and I grew up in the car all day, strong, riding a horse to go hunting, don't know how the money is, so don't save money, this is why start to the younger son to deal with this thing of truth, in fact I would have predicted it results.