The trains whizzing along, an old man just buy new shoes he dropped from the window of a passenger for all around, the old man had gone, but that one also throw it down. The old man was dumbfounded have a smile: "no matter how expensive shoes, only one left for me is no use. Throw it down, it is possible to let people pick up to get a new pair of shoes, still perhaps can wear?" The old man looks unusual move, reflected his waking value judgment: and as to the past, the decision to give up. This open to lose heart, an open-minded of composer, also respect a thought-provoking.
Generally speaking, people always used to get fear of losing. Although "lost" the truth will lose, but people are still think got festivity, and lost the it.if I. Each has lost, always uncomfortable, even for a of the pain.
Life is short. In order not to virtual time, make life as far as possible, I should indeed of excellence pursue and try to get wisdom and sweat create performance. However, we should have a correct view, learn to stand to lose lost. In order to build a career, sometimes have to lose some sensuality, in order to better realize my main goal, sometimes have to "DiuZuBaoChe", especially in order to not defiled his own personality, sometimes have to lose some interest, such as money-one that is as long as betray conscience or dignity to have money.
Open to lose, need timely adjust, way first to face the reality, admitted that lose, can't always indulge in lost not exist among things, loss and gain in fact is relative. In order to get lost, because, need to lose some, may be another unexpected win another some. Folk comfort of everything lost always say "the old not to new." And that is what happens. And in order to lose than annoyed, to win new get. Should understand is, have lost is not necessarily loss, but give up, devotion and step into the prelude of or overture, such losing, not is a good thing?
Open to lose, not like some people that palliative, also not be self as some people that "he who sees through the world of mortals," gou sustain them while they sit around. Open to lose, is more open-minded some, eye mind more long-term some, often for yourself, DaCha whole branch, eliminate the unnecessary play the miss and look in life, so that we can concentrate on the main pursuit. So, as XiaoErYanZhi, be beneficial to benefit social, self.