Tuesday 2024/07/23
My first post. At this time, I find it hard to think of what to write, but let's go
I am a Gentelman, I am polite, I am an X-Soldier, I am single, I love Japan and everything Japanese, I belive Japanese girls are the most beautiful in the world, I love almos any animal, I love food and to eat out with friends, I am direct that mean I do not have the Japanese way of being polite/friendly/respectful as long as we conduct buissness or I am your potentional new custemor, but on the inside the person do NOT respect me, like me, and are only polite to gain something or to optain a goal. I understand the concept of Tatemae vs. Honne the Politeness, Formality, Cultural Norms, Business and Social Etiquette but due to the cutural norms in Denmark, we find this as being false. And that in Denmark is just as great a Tabboo as Tatemae vs. Honne is in Japan. But of cause we have a culture of Tatemae vs. Honne in Denmark as well, but it's very downtoned and almoste clandestine. In Denmark we value Honesty very high, and we are very direct. In Denmark saying you have romantic feelings for a girl is a natural thing and it's done with very little etticete, if you like the girl you actually just say it to her, not in front of a bunch of people but surely over a coffee, and if the girl says yes you are a couple just like that and it's very normal that a girl do this as well. If she say no then you just keep drinking the coffee and chat, but it will be the last time you have coffee just the two of you, I know Anime is NOT how Japan is, but as we say in Denmark "If there is smoke there is fire", meaning the thinges in Anime carry a bit of the true nature of how things are done in Japan. And in Denmark we have seen girls/females as our equals for 100s of years, in the Viking age in Denmark Shield Maidens were a mans equal, and any female in the village was equals, and though Vikings were Brutal and on their punders they Killed, Burned, Raped, Stole, took Slaves. But at home things were different, a Danish Man or Female Protect and Fight!!!! This still stand today.
But that was my first post here, more will come and spelling will be fixed, the same goes for layout
But -
I will take a 2 month trip to Japan in 2 years
I am looking for a female "penpal" as in someone to exchange emails with, and I hope to find her here
Why a female? Well I just told you that I was single and said Japanese girls are the most beatyful in the world, and I greatly desire a Japanese girlfriend and if she want, a wife.