how could we judge other peple,
i mean personality or thinking something like inside things.
i guess it's really unkindly, and just too much expecting what kind of things people can give us...
something like that..
you know obviously it might be advices from your friends or family
but could be just no meaning conversation with bullshit. (sorry i know shouldn't use this word really...!)
日本語だと“十人十色”って言葉よね?
私が意味したいことは
when i was living in Australia,
could have some French friends there.
actually they don't try to open the door which means mental things
just give some advices to think having a best solution themselves.
maybe my friends are just nice and smart people,
but it is most relaxing relationship, i think
so now i am living in Japan
unfortunately some people just push their thinking to other people
looks so badly and uglily...
just do want to tell them
"you can not tell them which things are right or wrong!"
don't know why but seems like
someone want to judge and push them their opinion.
have you ever had (or felt) same things as me?
hopefully someday some people realize this things.
just try to listen other opinions around you!
今回は長々と英文にて失礼。
ちょっと今日はこのことを
すごく考えたので文章にしてみました
そんな私も”意見押し付けてない?”
って 言われちゃうかしら?
私が本日思ったこと
それは
“他人を決め付ける(判定)することはできない”
ということ
意見の押し付けではなく
意見、考えを分かち合いましょう
恋愛と同じように
まずは
そのままの他人の存在を受け入れること
それが人間関係の必要不可欠な考え方
だと思うのですが・・・・・
いかがかしら?