Completely seal the grudge that has been piled u

Unbelievable words come out normally

 I used to talk with friends about what to do if I win a lottery.  When asked, “What would you do if you hit 300 million yen?” I was surprised that all five housewives who were there answered “divorce”.
 “I can't actually divorce because of financial problems. I don't hate my husband, but I just think how fun my life would be without my husband” (43 years old, 18 years of marriage)
 "A family of four with a daughter and a son. A typical ordinary family, but I've always thought it would be rosy if my husband rushed. The violence of words is terrible.  I'm spending frustration, and today I am hoping that the police will let me know that I'm a cardiopulmonary arrest at the station "(48 years old, 22 years of marriage)
 “A husband who has looked down at me for a long time, and suddenly an illness caused an accident and it could be a sudden illness.
 They may get dark when they are reading, but they usually say something like this.  Some women said, “I'm really serious but not serious.”  “If you died because you wanted, you ’re a little waking,” he says.
 

"Okay is okay" is dangerous
 However, daily life is lived without delay.  Husbands tend to think that it ’s okay for us.  However, such a “normal family” housewife wants her husband to die.
 "I'm giving up, so I won't argue with my husband. If my husband says something, I just listen to it properly.  I also make lunch boxes, and my husband may think that we are doing well, but I haven't forgotten that I was told that your common sense and values ​​are not acceptable in society.  That's how I denied my personality. I don't think my husband can remember it. "
 It seems that Yukiko (47 years old) is filled with grudge against her husband.  However, I am living everyday while pretending to see it.
 “I usually don't think about my husband at all. I have removed it from my heart. When I come back, I eat a meal mechanically.  I'm laughing with my face for the time being.
 Still, if my husband disappears, I can get home with life insurance, get a small retirement allowance, and if I do part-time work, I can simulate that my college daughter can graduate safely now  is there.
 “It ’s the most fun when I ’m fancy”
 The wives still smile to their husbands today, with all the itch that has been piled up sealed.

Don't expect too much in life

Many people want to do something big in their lives. Certainly that is important, but if you are trapped in it, you might think that if you couldn't accomplish anything, that life was wasted.When you stop overly expecting yourself, you may grow for the first time and do something.I would like to introduce Daniella Whyte's article "6 things you shouldn't expect too much" in "Elite Daily".

Perfect education, perfect work, perfect marriage, perfect home. There is no such thing.There is a reason why you are "you now." Let's think that we are satisfied with what we have now. If you seek too much perfection, you will eventually lose sight and lose confidence.

No matter how great a person can rule the world. Think of yourself as responsible for your own life. Protecting the small world around you is a very hard job. When we face a crisis, we expect our family, friends and colleagues to be serious and friendly.But in fact, everyone doesn't do that. And if we don't get the expected response, we will be disappointed and angry.

If anyone goes wrong, they are likely to give up. However, people who work well at once are rare. And even if you achieve it once, it is only a coincidence.Only after experiencing many failures can you really succeed.

Everyone has the temptation to make a good excuse and want to sneak a bit. But this is never a plus in life.If you don't study, you will fail the test, and you may lose your job if you don't keep the delivery date. Please overcome the temptation. It's nice to be positive, but don't be too optimistic.

Everyone wants to be a perfect person. I want to go on to work, get a job, and get a license without struggling. But you can't do that. Unlike movies, we who live in reality are not Superman and have weaknesses. It is important to do your best to face your weaknesses.There is no perfect human being in this world.