One night, I went to see a friend who was framed, at dinner, my friend received a phone call, I hear someone framed him to tell a friend who is, friends say that you don't tell me, I don't want to know. I'm a little surprised, my friend explained, know what? Some things don't need to know, there's something to be forgotten.
I appreciate my friends and open-minded. Life is full of Eighteen-Nine, and you want to enjoy yourself, you must let your decompression, decompression and the best way is to learn to forget, need to be able to afford to take life, sometimes more important put it down. Buddhist scriptures, there is a short story, saying novices and old monks go alms, clasping, hat, everything looked the master, walk to the River, a woman, commanded the woman across the River from the old monks back, the woman thanks and leave, novices thinking minds, master, how can carry that woman across the river? But he was afraid to ask, walked 20 miles, he could hold out, just ask me, we are a family, how can you back that woman across the river? Master the subtle said, I put down her back across the River, but you carried in her 20 's not down.
Monk full of Zen, think, life is true. One's life like a long journey, keep walking along will see varied landscapes, after many ups and downs, if hearts go over and look at the past in mind, would have given themselves a lot of extra burden on richer experience, the pressure, the greater, we might as well forget all the way along the way, keep it. Past is past, impossible to go back in time, in addition to learn lessons, can take heart.
Willing to forget is a psychological balance, need to open a sincere attitude to life. Some people can forget frustrated Shi of embarrassing and distress, is on times Shi of pride relish, not known success and failed as will left in past, always wallow past cannot let go, often said I young that will how how, took yesterday canadensis Dang front views,NIKE BLAZER VINTAGE PAS CHER, let were won in heart wing left, complacency, smug, stuck themselves and false among, will will not SI aggressive, deterred. Brave hero, not to mention the year makes sense. Dreamer, the pain of the past, always a face has been through much bitterness even more undesirable. India poet Rabindranath Tagore said, "weep if you lost the Sun, you also miss the stars. "As trivial and consequently Chen Sesame rotten millet brooding, devouring mind's boat swamped the ship of the memory load it down, was pinned by painful past to the future. An old saying says it well: pissed off someone else's mistake to punish yourself. Always used the harm others, actually suffered is himself, who let bygones be bygones, people happy is easy.
Forget the need to choose, some people there are things in your life is to forget, you should not be forgotten. Famous Arab writer, Ali, and Gilbert, Marsellus two friends traveling together. Three people passing through a Valley, Martha slipped and slipped. Gilbert pulled him desperately, will save him. Martha wrote on a rock near the: "a day in a certain month or year, Gilbert has saved Martha's life. "Three people continued to go for a few days, reached a river, Gilbert together with Marsellus is a trifle, Gilbert Flay slapped Marsellus Wallace. Marsellus ran to the beach wrote: "a day in a certain month or year, Gilbert gave Martha a slap. "When they travel back, Ali asked curiously Marsellus why Gilbert saved his inscription on the stone, Gilbert played something he wrote in the sand? Marsellus replied: "I'm forever grateful that Gilbert saved me, I'll keep that in mind. He hit me, I just disappeared the on the beach with her and forgets. " This story tells us, you help others in mind, forget that other people are bad for you, this is the part of a man.
Many people like such a vernacular poetry: flowers in the spring and autumn months, and snow in winter and cool in summer. If there are no business hanging heart, is the room that season. Remember certain things to certain people, forget certain things to certain people, remeber what should be remembered, forget the forgotten, free and easy life, with no one, you may have the feeling that life is so beautiful.
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