You never know what’s other people's affairs.
The other day, I attended a girls' association.
I was invited to lunch with 4 women including myself.
Because it was a rare invitation by a rare member
I thought it would be interesting and decided to participate.
These days, before I go to a restaurant,
I check the restaurant's website and decide on a dish.
Because if there are any foods that don't contain wheat, cow milk, etc. that affect my health, I want to order them.
So here is the lunch that I chose↓
Roast beef (with bread or rice)
I was surprised at how luxurious the fruits were piled around the roast beef. 
All fruits are delicious!
Among them, I was impressed by the fact that it contained my favorite fig and the pineapple was very sweet.
A salad was laid under the roast beef.
The rice was cooked well.
I ate up all the food on my plate.
When I looked to the side
, the girl next to me had leftover fruit
, so I said without thinking.
"Oh, leftovers "
After I said that, I regretted saying, "I have to think a little more about how to say it, might have sounded like I was attacking her."
I don’t wont to say "you should not leave any food."
I am a culture eradication faction that " leaving food behind is bad manners".
I thought frankly that
"Is the portion size large ? "
"Doesn't she like fruit?"
"Such a delicious fruit, I could eat it all in a few mouthfuls why does she leave ? ”
But she told me without her anger that
“I love fruit, but if I eat too much of it, I get allergies.
So I ate a little (just before I thought it was no good) and stopped halfway through.”
Wheat and milk to me were fruit to her.
I thought I understood people's affairs, but I didn't.
That's why I appreciate what she taught me about her affairs.
Each person has a different type of food that can or cannot be eaten.
Some people have a constitution that they can eat only a small amount even though they like it.
The amount that can be eaten varies from person to person.
It was an event that I thought, " never know what’s other people's affairs."
A seque to the event.
I went to the restaurant again with my husband.
After finishing his lunch set, he ordered a peach and mango parfait.
I thought, "He can't finish it."
However, when I got a taste of it, it was so good that I took half and ate it. haha
