Regret that one through the dramaAuthor / Classical (new elite career founder) 'regrets useful?' I asked. 'useless, but just can not help.' 'Wrong, regret useful it is to make you feel really could have changed, so special cool. But regret is not useless, but impossible. 'with Lin Lin (pseudonym), a half-hour conversation, she told me about her' life's most regret 'thing. Lin Lin in a large company campus recruitment from 500 among those Special Nike Air Force 1 Unisex Blue White Shoes who go directly recruited, the envy of everyone to get a good job - assistant director of sales, although income is not high, but well-known companies, high-quality people around all the dealers have to find a director through her attitude. Natural respectful, all make a fledgling girl feel perfect! until today, she also believes that it is her 'best' job, not one. did not last long, a few months after her boyfriend from Xi'an sent an ultimatum: Either break up, or she hesitated to give up his job and went to the Xi'an married a year later, settle down. 'Imagine that time, I was so naive,' Lin Lin repeatedly 2015 Latest Nike Shoes said. I thought, with the blood of my generation university, absolute crime. conquest seemed frustrated workplace law, especially girls. She found a job a few times, a difference every time. Some of the company is not big enough, some people around quality is not good enough, and some are no development, others do not respect her. Most people confused when it came to career, the first response is not to stop and think about their own, but thought to PubMed, what abroad and job-hopping is not to find himself - which is actually quite funny, like when driving the car is some what conditions, or poor roads, you do not get off the look, but is on the upside and road fuel but also the Chinese people the most normal. The idea, not how to do the work? read a research it. It took two years, Lin Lin finished a university master's degree, confident entering the job market, they found the problem remains. In the middle of all to her career, or the year share of the occupation is the 'best', more bad than in the past, she also needs time effort to take care of the family, the development of even more hopeless. Seeing a great future in the year of young women has become the storm at home Jour, Lin Lin finds , then if you stay in Beijing, will find a better person, to find a better platform to career and marriage endowment for the end. But then why do so many wrong choice? Since this 'Later, I finally learn how to love 'idea generates a start, Lin Lin began a long' Later movement 'sabotage her home with the company together with the children did not mind, each work is probably stick to dry month does not go - because the best had passed ah. do career planning for many years, I first discovered that the missing work will be like a rude awakening to miss first love, only under the brow, and the heart. I know Lin Lin had several jobs later, very fair Yes I think she was 'assistant director' of illusion to deceive the Assistant there are two, one is promoted from administrative opening up, more responsible leadership transactional work;.. Another is from the business mouth promoted up, strong ability to junior but, more responsible leadership is to help deal with the business, but it is the position of deputy director. The first job Lin Lin More like an administrative assistant. though it looks glamorous, in fact capacity requirements and development are not many, a few years, if the ability to change, prospects bleak. If the case be removed from the boss, then immediately die. additional assistant leaders live and work imbalance is common, nature will not allow her to go back married. regrets useful? useful! He let Lin Lin successfully hallucinations, he is actually very strong, but could not find a suitable space. he is actually no problem, just that moment of weakness when wrong decisions. Is not resist The best way to live worse? Let us look at the 'regret by' psychological mechanism, they made a detour, then get 'This road is not good,' the intelligence, but you want to take this wisdom back then to change their own destiny. But if there is no detour through this, how could escape the wisdom wrong? Failure is the mother of success, is the mother of wisdom wrong, you can imagine how his mother gave birth to wisdom wrong child, and then through the back This is not to kill the mother does not work, it is impossible to do things wisdom only child, it is to change the future of a more well, do little wrong most 后林琳 challenge me, and said:?.. 'If I was find a job and planners, for example, you, our famous classical teacher - ask, is not finished, 'I said:' This is your future options, then - I do not know what is career planning?. 'She asked:' If this decision today, one day the future will be found to be wrong, how to do. 'I said: '? Possibly, but you certainly do not regret it now has been going badly wrong and that time you smarter. , and you can see better options that are from the beginning of this choice 'left bank note: The first step is frankly no longer regret the French proverb:: English Proverb. Do not wait for the day only to find out later that they cute Tagore's point: If you miss the sun when you shed tears, then you also miss the stars Shelley: As weak to do, then if you still do regret, and that is the more weakness Raab. Lv Yeer: When we are gone youth, alas, we should consider the future of aging, do not then there is no longer attached to cherish prime remorse: regret psychological antidote text / Zhang Yijun to participate in a corporate family birthday party, during which there are several entrepreneurs talked and talked, and everybody just chatted about the recent rally in the stock market and housing prices torrents. It was proudly explain their stock of unique vision and considerable profit status : 'I long ago spotted the stock, at the time one buys on a lot of buying, let me make this wave turned ......' At this time, just listen to a corner table came the scream, scared . Everyone hop turned around and saw Jordan Slide a female executive friends words with sad to say:! 'Oh, a few months ago and I think the stock will go up, I called my friend, that they quickly buy , the results themselves a favor, but forgot to buy, look it up so fierce that the next really being wrong ...... 'Unfortunately, the world does not regret it! Someone made a conclusion. Speaking of regret, many people have a wide range of regret the experience: investment in the stock market to buy did not buy, the sale did not sell; Tanhunlunjia missed you favorite target, chose not to choose a partner; career to give up jobs and more development, seeking refuge ailing company ...... think carefully, if preoccupied, really regret in life everywhere! Oh. I wonder if you thought about emotions actually regret very huge impact on us because of regret, we will not feel the harvest brought Happy (for example: stocks, although profitable, but regret not selling at the highest point; marriage pretty sweet, but regret missing your favorite partner, etc.). This is because regret mood at work, so we tend to fall into intense remorse and sense of loss. (if the time to make other choices, I would be better now ......!) and therefore totally flawless make an objective assessment of: the status quo is still very good in fact, that all thankful for their cheering Additionally, too strong. remorse mood, it makes you lose motivation in my life. In the investment has been made to regret the decision or in the marriage had been a tragic outcome of failure, just as it was under attack a scourge general , memorable, the future will no longer dare to restocking, or gonna get married. And psychologists to 'regret' the mood, but never regret doing research and exploration, Oh! In addition it effects on a person's emotional life is very huge addition, we all regret the mood is only one emotion only associated with decision-making. In other words, only when it comes to the selection or decision-making Nike Air Max 90 Premium problems, you and I will experience regret emotions while making decisions, it is the life of the most important great wisdom, so of course I have to caution you to be 'regret' emotional. Studies have shown that about six or seven years we will be sorry mood, before the age of 5 Children will not have the ability to feel regret. And the more people who used to do comparison, the more prone to regret the mood. In fact, it is very easy to understand, when the stock is sold, the proceeds themselves and Air Jordan XX8 others compare, or to present themselves and their originally may have earnings compared etc. Comparing the more, the more remorse. and regret can be divided into two types, one is the 'retrospective regret.' When we look at past decisions, imagine if you made a different decision at that time, may occur Classic Nike Air Force 1 Mens Black Red Shoes when all sorts of better results than it is now (if I do like it!), produce is 'retrospective regret.' The other is 'anticipatory regret.' When you and I think about the future decisions made may cause disappointing results (in case of a wrong decision on out!), on a 'anticipatory regret.' And both regret emotions are likely to affect our present action and future decisions. Many investors and real estate investors have experienced varying degrees of regret mood, are often so let emotions dictate of reason, but more likely Original Nike Force 1 Mens Gray Pink Shoes to make irrational decisions. The how to do in order to transform itself from regret emotions the first rescue, if repent for past behavior, the best solution is to change the reference point is the original and the current share price compared to the record high stock price (for example:? When you sell 18 yuan, while the record high is to over 40 million), then you should quickly change the reference point, not before also fell 12 yuan before? I think about heart will initiation 'Fortunately, no worse,' the idea, and let the mood index up again Another effective approach is to justify their decision at the time (for example, when everyone still bullish, the financial turmoil has yet anyway, my decision was not too bad ......) and try to belittle the other options (even though I made a different decision, is likely to result is the same bad ......). This way, you can in an instant to save himself, not being wrong. Maybe the world does not regret it, but as long as you and I know the psychological adjustment, you can Let regret mood gone with the wind, full of energy to meet the next financial decisions.