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gender communication

Now, I'm writing a reserch paper due to today's PM 2:00 about gender communication. My topic is different purposes of talking about personal problems.


Sounds interesting, doesn't it?


Men are likely to seek the solution of the problem when they talk about their personal problems.


Women are likely to share the feelings and sympathy with the speaker when they talk about their personal problems.


This is a big difference and because of the gap, men and women misunderstands each other when men talk about his troubles to women and when women talk about her troubles to men.


Fundamentally and ultimately, what men want and what women want is different.


Therefore, men should talk about his troubles to men and women should talk about her troubles to women.


Same sex people will understand and can provide what the speaker want.



Ooops...


I have to magnify and broaden this topic until over 1500 words..


Now, I wrote only 400...


I wanna sleep...

LOVE

Love is so complicated. There's no easy love in this world.


If there's an easy love, it'll be nice, but also boring.


People desire the unreachable dream like that.


I have to overcome.

My way

Life style differs from person to person. Of course, this is obvious, but sometimes people forget the ovbious fact in some situations.


As an example of that situation, I'll talk about my story.


Nowadays, I was about to lose my life style because I'm in love with somebody.


I tried to be loved by her somehow and in that process, I force myself to behave unusually. I don't know I behaved unusually, but now I wonder that if I kept behaving so, I might hurt her and myself someday.


Yesterday, she said to me, "Please leave me alone for a while." Of course, I was shocked, but now I think her decision was right because this week we met too much. Sharing time as many as possible will be happy thing as long as both party are willing to do that. If one of them feel something wrong or stressful in such as situation, spend time alone is good way to cool the heated head.


Of course, it'll be lie if I say I'm not worried about our relationship, but I don't think our relationship gets worse because of this seperated time.


I don't want to associate myself with songs which are sung for people generally, not specifically, but I could be relieved by "Celery" sung by Masayoshi Yamazaki. The song makes me realize that we need to spend our time and our sharing time shouldn't be took granted. The time is precious. I shouldn't forget that.