Naive
I am now thinking of one's logic:
"You send me multiple emails, it is total unacceptable and insane, in japanese , it is not acceptable. I have got husband, 2 kids and family, they are very angry about it, please do not read my blog, or ...
There is a rule of one spamming one's with multiple email in japan, i will take action against you."
Okay, let me clarify my content of my mails:
"Wanna to meet up as my biz trip will be made soon, if yes or no, please let me know."
"Are you safe from traveling?"
" I have enclosed some photos taken for you"
"If you wanna to learn about English, you could read...."
"Oh, you are readily smart and work in XXXX shop, I respect and appreciate, if I have time, I will let you know and could visit you".
Do you guys find the logic of her complaint and my content of each mail? How come these emails will make her family unhappy? How can she ask me not to read her blog? A young girl could birth 2 kids already and I suppose it could be an excuse and a lies, but it doesn't matter whether you got 10 husbands or 100 kids, because just be friend, come on.
The only reason I could explain: I am not as handsome as she expects and she thinks I got some "bad ideas".
However, I have got these questions for another girls in Hong Kong and United State as well as one from Korea, and she said it is normal for me to ask about that, it is a bit annoying but not offensive.
Anyway, I wanna to make friend with Japanese girl however, their thought is hard to guess.
"You send me multiple emails, it is total unacceptable and insane, in japanese , it is not acceptable. I have got husband, 2 kids and family, they are very angry about it, please do not read my blog, or ...
There is a rule of one spamming one's with multiple email in japan, i will take action against you."
Okay, let me clarify my content of my mails:
"Wanna to meet up as my biz trip will be made soon, if yes or no, please let me know."
"Are you safe from traveling?"
" I have enclosed some photos taken for you"
"If you wanna to learn about English, you could read...."
"Oh, you are readily smart and work in XXXX shop, I respect and appreciate, if I have time, I will let you know and could visit you".
Do you guys find the logic of her complaint and my content of each mail? How come these emails will make her family unhappy? How can she ask me not to read her blog? A young girl could birth 2 kids already and I suppose it could be an excuse and a lies, but it doesn't matter whether you got 10 husbands or 100 kids, because just be friend, come on.
The only reason I could explain: I am not as handsome as she expects and she thinks I got some "bad ideas".
However, I have got these questions for another girls in Hong Kong and United State as well as one from Korea, and she said it is normal for me to ask about that, it is a bit annoying but not offensive.
Anyway, I wanna to make friend with Japanese girl however, their thought is hard to guess.
Japanese girls
Life is always like that, when you think you treat someone good, concerning others, she may think your have done something wrong and even over. It is the case.
I do security, I work on hacking, life is always trying to protect and concerning about one's, however, it is easier to run into another extreme that I am "too concerning" over something. People will be mislead that I got another "bad idea' in mind.
After traveling around different places, I suppose I can't apply a world/global attitude over dealing with Japanese girls, it is because they may believe sending multiple emails could be kinds of disturbance, may be, I also assume they will reply quickly and I am afraid of her safety, the mindset is very simple. However, most of the people will not believe in such simple thought.
I have met up various girls in different social occasion, it is quite difficult to deal with this kind of Hacker and typical Japanese girls relation, as Hacker, we are proactive, passionate over something we salute to and like, with curiosity, however, others may think again: This is an annoyance.
I could say, this is not a kind of "planned" annoyance, nothing wrong with "Too excited" to meet up with a friend, of course, male and female are easily attracted to each other, other than the typical "love" between men and women, there is a connection including "Salute and Appreciation", be frank, I am very appreciating and saluting to a girl who didn't go to university, working hard for many years, becoming a director of boutique shops.
Is there any reason I didn't respect to? At least, I haven't met one before.
Finally, excuse is useless, the point is she is annoyed and did not feel comfortable, I will take her as a friend and step back a bit, i bless her always be happy and leave her alone.
Thank you so much her to teach me some simple Japanese like "Inu"...I never forget about it.
I do security, I work on hacking, life is always trying to protect and concerning about one's, however, it is easier to run into another extreme that I am "too concerning" over something. People will be mislead that I got another "bad idea' in mind.
After traveling around different places, I suppose I can't apply a world/global attitude over dealing with Japanese girls, it is because they may believe sending multiple emails could be kinds of disturbance, may be, I also assume they will reply quickly and I am afraid of her safety, the mindset is very simple. However, most of the people will not believe in such simple thought.
I have met up various girls in different social occasion, it is quite difficult to deal with this kind of Hacker and typical Japanese girls relation, as Hacker, we are proactive, passionate over something we salute to and like, with curiosity, however, others may think again: This is an annoyance.
I could say, this is not a kind of "planned" annoyance, nothing wrong with "Too excited" to meet up with a friend, of course, male and female are easily attracted to each other, other than the typical "love" between men and women, there is a connection including "Salute and Appreciation", be frank, I am very appreciating and saluting to a girl who didn't go to university, working hard for many years, becoming a director of boutique shops.
Is there any reason I didn't respect to? At least, I haven't met one before.
Finally, excuse is useless, the point is she is annoyed and did not feel comfortable, I will take her as a friend and step back a bit, i bless her always be happy and leave her alone.
Thank you so much her to teach me some simple Japanese like "Inu"...I never forget about it.