Have you ever feel lonely?
Have you ever feel happy?
Have you ever feel that today is your unlucky day?
Those questions are about daily live in a real life.
If today you have a kind of unlucky day, think what was in your mind at this morning.
Actually there must be reason that causing of your bad day. But, before that I want to inform you that in our real life, we are influenced by two things, they are macrocosmos and microcosmos.
"What do you mean? What is macrocosmos? and What is microcosmos?"
Macrocosmos:
Is something that influences us in our real life directly.
For example: "When you wet your pants by peeing inside in public, you will get smashed by your girlfriend imidiately."
In this case, the smashing of your girlfriend is a direct impact of your action. This kind of thing can be called "Macrocosmos Influence"
Microcosmos:
Just like the name "micro", it influences us in our real life undirectly.
The thing could be happened by a "micro" thing.
Micro means something that can't be seen directly. So, what is it?
Micro is "OUR MIND"
Well, for the clear explanation, I will give an example:
"Have you ever feel that it's very hard to do our summer homework? Sometimes can make us dizzy and crazy. It can be happened when you make up your mind and think that the homework is very hard and too much, and you keep thinking about it repeatly, so the homework become harder and harder more than before."
In this case, "OUR MIND" that causes the homework become harder, not the homework itself, actually if you think it's easy then it would be easy.
So, "OUR MIND" gives an influence in our real life undirectly.
You know what?
Microcosmos is something that influences our real life for 90%
Someone can be succes because he/she thinks that he/she can
Summary, Our perspective can control our life.
What you have to do is to control your life in a good track by thinking good about yourself. Don't let the others control your life. Don't take any suggestion from others that can make you down. Because your fate and your life is only in your hand.
If you don't respect yourself, others will bully you and getting advantage from you for themselves.