The importance of communication
I think most of all problems are based on miscommunication or lack of communication.
Some people, especially with someone who is in close relationship, tend to think that each communication with one’s closest person are not so important, reading the atmosphere is important.
I believe that is not true. Sometime reading one’s atmosphere is important, but every relationship, even its between family member’s, they never understand everything without communication.
To communicate is hard and needs effort, however the effort need to be made by all members.
If the wife try so hard to communicate with her husband, but the husband refuse and goes into his shell and does not try to make any effort, it is very hard to communicate because communication is not one way, it need to be done by both side.
The reason why the communication is so important is without communication people never be able to understand each other.
Even a good thing or a bad thing, people want to understand other people, especially when it comes to someone special, people eager to understand them.
If he gives up to communicate, that means he gives up to understand her. He wants her to understand him and accept, but he is not intend to understand and accept her. this is the one way relationship and that is something that child do. Child need to be loved to survive, they need unconditional love to live. But people grow up and lean how to love from their experience. The memories and past experiences that being loved by family, friends and lover teach us how to love other people.