やばい・・・
付き合い始める前から半同棲を経て、同棲をしてた私達だっただけに離れ離れになるなんて！！って感じだったけど
最近は遠距離に慣れてきて普段は全然大丈夫なんだけど、
フッとした瞬間とかダメだわぁ
今日はこれを仕事行く時にウォークマンで聞いてたら、あらら、涙がでてきてしまいました。
すごーく素敵な歌。
Think of you By Taj Jackson
最近知ったこのTaj Jacksonというシンガー。
よく知らないんだけど、誰なんでしょ？マイケルジャクソンの甥なのかな？
声はNe-Yoに似てる気がする。
“Put it in a love song"じゃないけど
おかげさまでここ数年、TJと付き合ってる期間はラブソングをエンジョイしてます
最近のお気に入りはMoninaの『Everything to me』
（Official VideoをPasteできなかった。。。）
このビデオでモニカが着てる服は先日亡くなったAlexander Mcqueenのドレスらしいよ。
賛否両論だけど、私はとっても可愛いと思う。
この曲をTJに送ったら、TJはこんなメッセージを添えて、この曲を送ってきてくれた
I love this song and i feel like this is how i feel...
listen closely to the chorus
Therapy by India. Arie
なんつってラブラブな日記を書いてみました
最近は桜がきれいですねーーーーー。
桜を見るのは数年振りだから幸せな気分でいっぱいだわぁ
HEAR WHAT OPRAH WINFREY HAD TO SAY ABOUT MEN
HEAR WHAT OPRAH WINFREY HAD TO SAY ABOUT MEN
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't 'be friends'. A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is
Don't stay because you think 'it will get better'
You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women.
He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything.* He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior.* Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are...
Even if he has more education or in a better job.
Do not make him into a quasi-god.
He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man .
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending...
Compromise is two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships...
There is nothing cute about baggage...
Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...
A relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...
Look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted
Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need.
Keep him in your radar but get to know others.