It is our 8th wedding anniversary, and yes, we are in the middle of fighting.
I talked to him "hey dont we go the sushi restraunt?", and he answered me " Shut up! I never go the sushi restraunt with you. never!" . "Oh, yeah? Stop talking to me like that way. You dont have to yell at me all the time." then, he throwed something towards me, and yelling "STOP TALKING TO ME! GET THE HELL OUT OF HERE!"
So, I said " oh, you really like throwing something huh? why dont you go and learn some ball games? instead of throwing something in the house?"
After that, he climbed up to the bed room, and covered his whole body from head to toe by a blancket.
I gave him 10mins silence, and I started to talk.
"Hey, do you really want this relationship going on? I dont. its waisting our time.
If you want to continue this relationship, just keep going. But I bet that you will never get fully happy satisfied days.
You will be always devastated, and always be alone. Even with your kids, you cant really be happy.
Hope you know that.
And for your information, I do not intend to judge you. What youve done, it was unpleasant, but I dont critisize for what youve done. Because we cant change what has happened. But We can change what is going to happen.
Well, he didnt react anything, even he did, I cant see it. you know, hes covered by blancket.
Just ignoring.
What is good thing for me is I stayed calm, and talked to him calmly.